Women, what do you prefer your man to wear to bed?
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Anonymous
| I think it probably depends on how attracted you are to your significant other. I actually don't care what he wears or doesn't wear, but I wish my husband would floss before bed and have taken a shower that day. Also, shaving that day would be helpful. Basically, just normal hygiene. He probably doesn't believe how much that would improve our sex life, though I have told him repeatedly. Weekends are the worst because he seems to take that as a pass to shaving and showers. |
Anonymous
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I don't care and think it is weird to need something like clothes to make you change the way you feel about a SO.
Unless he had some weird fetish of wearing a gorilla suit to bed every night, not sure why this matters. |
Anonymous
You don't find some clothes sexier than others? You have no aesthetic preferences? No texture preferences? |
Anonymous
| Boxers - I like to work my hands underneath for a minute or two and then help remove them. Then I............ |
Anonymous
Nope. I am also extremely intrinsically motivated so that might be it. I don't let other people's tone/attitude/actions affect my happiness. I don't let clothes determine the needs of my loins. It is super bizarre to me how others are. |
Anonymous
Yeah. I like shirtless, too. |
Anonymous
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DH wears boxers & a tshirt, which I'm fine with (I do think no tshirt is more attractive, but so is lingerie, and I'm not wearing that to bed every night).
However, what makes a big difference is that it's a decent t-shirt. DH used to wear old t-shirts that had been around for 15+ years and had holes and stains and was way too big, and it was just really unattractive. I made a few joking comments about them, and he has started to get the picture. He picked up some plain, soft t-shirts that are more appropriately sized for him, and it looks much better. Bed shouldn't be the dumping ground for your old, worn-out, ill-fitting "comfy clothes." You should be comfortable, but also try to wear decent versions of whatever items you like. Get rid of items that have stains & holes. |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
NP. Not when it comes to men's pajamas, no. I can't think of anything less important to me than men's pajamas, or lack thereof, now that you mention it. |
Anonymous
You must have one happy DH! 
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Anonymous
| Nothing. Why wear anything to bed once you're an adult? |
Anonymous
| A suit and tie because it gives off that sexy money vibration. |
Anonymous
I slept naked for a long time, but as I've gotten older, I've gone back to pajamas. I am cold at night, and no amount of blankets seems to be enough. Plus DH is warm, so we end up with this really lopsided amount of blankets that create a big tangle. I also like having something on if I get up in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning. I just feel cozier and more comfortable now. |
Anonymous
| Nothing |
Anonymous
| Anything as long as I don't have to touch his cold and giant stomach |