Because she's getting snippy. Several people are telling her similar things: ex. "it depends on the teacher." |
There is no one who can give a precis on the nurturing scale of multiple elementary schools in Bethesda, with scores for individual teachers included. This is like posters who ask about the telework policies of "federal agencies." What you get that year in that classroom/teacher and division/boss is what you get. |
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I wouldn't characterize Somerset the same as Westbrook. We toured both and decided on Somerset in part because of its higher diplomatic and international population. We love the school, faculty and community. |
You're right. She is really snippy. Do you even have a child in elementary yet? You can't generalize like that about public schools. At Westbrook my child had a horrible K teacher and a great 1st great one I wouldn't call either of them nurturing, though. Some other parents I know didn't like the 1st grade teacher but she was great with my own child. I have a lot of friends at another school in Bethesda and the atmosphere there two years ago was horrible because of the principal who picked favorites among the PTA moms and kids. Now they have a new principal who has more integrity and it's night a day with what they tell me is a wonderful community feel. |
+1 OP seems to have challenges related to written communication. |
No public school is nurturing. Honestly. Tracking? That slightly begins in math only in 4/5th. Otherwise high school and again, only for certain classes. Even honors classes are mixed with the dumbest kids. If you have been to private with small class sizes you are in for a ride awakening. |
You sound like a real charmer. Choose anything but BE, please. |
Why stay away from Wood Acres? Could you elaborate? |
Part of the problem is schools go on cycles, wood acres was crowded 5-7 years ago but then they moved and remodeled which caused an exodus. This year which is the 1st in the new building it has just under 600 kids in a building big enough for over 900 and the K classes have 23kids. Most parents would love those ratios but by the time they get there it could change. Wood acres is the place to be this year next year who knows |
| The level of nurturing your child will get at and individual school is very teacher and child specific. If you have a child with ADHD or anxiety who acts out, your child will not be nurtured. If you have a compliant child with an endearing personality, the chances of being nurtured go up. All the schools care about their children, but don't expect a private school experience. |
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They don't have the staffing to care about kids with ADHD or anxiety or other special needs even if they are mild. The attitude at many of the schools is to keep high performing kids and their parents happy and to get rid of the low performers. It hurts their test scores and principal salaries and promotions. |
| Um, you don't "get rid" of low performers in public schools. It's not like private school where slower students are counseled out. |
No they don't "get rid" of the low performers. But if they don't offer the resources to assist your low performing child you are either taking a lot of time off work to fight for resources or paying for outside resources, perhaps private school, if you can afford it. What are you going to do, let your child fail if the school isn't helping? |
| 19:56: I agree that nobody wants to see their child fail in school. But many can't easily pay the bill for the Lab Schools of the world and must struggle/fight with the system to get support, which the schools by federal law are obligated to give. |