Anonymous wrote:Have him clean the toilet and sweep the floors if he doesn't do his homework. He'll become a janitor if he doesn't apply himself.
EXACTLY!! I am all for positive reinforcement but paying for grades, getting trips, treats, screen time etc.. if you do good is not reinforcement, it is bribery. What if you do bad? Do you just not get the luxuries. Who cares.
You either earn things you want or you don't get the things you want. Makes sense to me, and that's pretty much how the world works.
. But kids with ADD won't care if they don't get a treat or a long term goal like a trip. The OP said he already gets a ton of screen time on the weekend. So there is no reason to try, hence why he hasn't.