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Yes, but not educated parent doesn't necessarily mean not educated children. It just depends on the parents and/or child, and often times it depends on the culture. There is an all boys catholic school in Watts CA where 100% of the kids are minorities (70 percent Latino and 30 percent black.), high FARMS rate, and they have 100% college acceptance rate (albiet, CSU level university, but some have gone to Ivy levels). Many are the first in their families to go to college. http://abc7.com/education/all-boys-watts-high-school-has-100-percent-college-acceptance/777375/ Like a PP stated, there has to be the desire, and you can't force that on people. It's sad really that they don't see education as a ticket out no matter how many times they are told. I don't know if it's fear of the unknown or not wanting their kids to be "different" than the rest of the family. There are many white Americans that are the same, and even Asian groups (like Hmongs, though that is changing). http://www.pbs.org/newshour/updates/these-groups-of-asian-americans-rarely-attend-college-but-california-is-trying-to-change-that/ |
I agree with this completely. I taught in a very similar school, but in New York City, I am no longer teaching there. I had one parent who told me her son didn't come to school One day because it was raining and she couldn't get a taxi for him. I struggled for words to respond as he had already missed the maximum number of days after which point you are required to repeat the grade. . I have many students who were English language learners, so even though many did have supportive parents, they could not help with homework or academics in the same way that others could. Some of my students who had family in the Caribbean or central America would routinely miss one to three weeks of school every year due to parent scheduling their vacations during the school year. Some students would just start three weeks late. Many would not do homework. I don't love homework, but when students are years behind in reading and math, some of it is necessary. It would just not be done. It needs to be a family and community effort and not all learning can take place in the classroom |
I am the teacher who posted previously and I also teach ESOL. I agree with everything you wrote especially about how we are expected to do more and more of what I consider the role of a parent. I went to my kid's BTS night and it was packed. Standing room only. I'm exhausted and yet I went to BTS night b/c I care and want to know about my child's teachers, curriculum, etc. My school's BTS night often has entire grade level teams (3 classrooms) where not one parent attends. 90%+ of the students who attend my school live within walking distance. When I leave BTS night, I see parents sitting on stoops and sitting out in front yards. If you can't spend an hour walking down the street to your child's school once a year, what does that say to your child? |
| Both parents working, family problems/struggles, multiculturalism, etc |
But remember: Children have to enroll in schools like Kipp. Someone has to take steps to make it happen. That means kids who are enrolled in schools like Kipp already have a leg up on other kids of similar SES: They have parents who have an interest in and an ability to seek out more for their kids. |
Do you think it would help if the lower SES and/or ESL students weren't so concentrated? Again, I don't know how you address this within DC proper, since so many affluent families have left the system all together. But in neighboring counties that have more affluent students attending public school, wouldn't having the ESL and low SES students less concentrated make teaching easier because you wouldn't be quite so overwhelmed, and you would have more time for differentiation? Wouldn't it make staffing clubs and events easier if you had a larger pool of parents who could fund and/or staff clubs and events? Wouldn't it improve the academic culture if the majority of the parents did prioritize education and attend events and expect excellence from their children? |
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I think these are incredibly important points that aren't well understood by many. There is an ENORMOUS difference in the way the average person of higher SES/education talks to her young children compared with how the average person of lower SES/education does. It cannot be overstated. Think about how and how much many of us talk to our toddlers and preschoolers all day long: "Yes, that is a tricycle. Do you see how it has three wheels? One, two, three. Mommy's bicycle has only two wheels. One, two." "Do you want to wear your purple shirt or your red shirt?" (Kid points to purple) "Purple it is! Purple is one of my favorite colors. Do you know what else is purple in this room? I see something purple on your bookshelf. Can you find it?" "Oh my goodness, what could that loud noise be?! Did you hear it? There it is again! Let's go look. Do you think it's the trash truck? No? Maybe it's a fire truck!" "Are you going to use your doctor kit to give me a check up? Okay. I wonder if I have a fever. Can you check my temperature with the thermometer? It goes under my tongue. No, thermometers don't go in people's nostrils." (Kid: What is a nostril?) "You know those two holes that everyone has in their noses? Those are nostrils. One nostril, two nostrils." "Hey, look, there's the library. Maybe we can stop there on our way home. Do you remember the name of the librarian who helps us find our books? That's right, Miss Larla. What kind of books should we ask Miss Larla about?" and on and on and on and on and on. All day, every day. Look at the concepts and vocabulary in just those few sentences above. Now think about a home where these kind of conversations just don't take place. It is like this in many more homes than people realize. These children get to school and they are, literally, YEARS behind. And catching up is almost impossible, because the homes in which those conversations occur between adults and preschoolers become the homes in which adults and school-aged children talk about elections and the discovery of a planet in another solar system and how to calculate a batting average and what the difference is between a hurricane and a tropical storm and what ISIS is and what makes someone born a boy or a girl and why are some people transgender. And on and on and on and on and on. All day, every day. And so the children of the haves continue to pull away from the children of the have nots. I think the culture of poverty can only be changed by trying to change the culture of *parenting* in poorer communities. But it is incredibly hard, because adults are shaped by the way they themselves were parented. |
Thank you for taking the time to post this. |
No. There is no evidence that supports this. |
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Mcps is not going to close the achievement gap - they may cover it up some. But in our lifetimes it is not going to happen
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This could be studied in some of the DC elementary schools which have increasing #s of high SES kids in the lower grades due to more high SES families moving into a neighborhood and using the local school who plan on staying at the school (e.g., in Ward 6 - Ludlow-Taylor, Maury, JO Wilson, Payne). |
| Get to the point. We cannot have an open discussion about these issues if every non liberal is called a racist or biased etc. people need to stick with facts respect and open mindedness (but not in the liberal sense) |
But someone has to go online and request to be part of the program to get the books. If the families don't care about books and education, you need someone to do this for the family. Maybe kids should sign up through/at school. |