My boyfriend makes fun of my body.

[Anonymous]

You sound beautiful to me OP. Dump that horrible man and find a nice guy who worships your body.

[Anonymous]

Dump him. Deciding that you dont want to date someone who is cruel and disrespectful is not being a 'drama queen,' it is being self-respectful. Of course, before you dump him, you can tell him about the hot, brilliant and kind guy with a big dick that you used to date and that you dont find him very attractive, but hey, lighten up, its just a joke.

[Anonymous]

OMG, I want to knock out his kneecaps!! What an a-hole. You cannot stay with this guy! He should not have the privilege of seeing your body anymore.

Dump him! You are not bring a drama queen.

[Anonymous]

Get out now. There is a good chance that he is grooming you for abuse. My abusive ex husband started out making "jokes" about my body or looks. My self esteem was low enough that I stayed for years as things escalated.

I would get into therapy too. You need to learn why you would accept this kind of treatment, and how to avoid it in the future.

[Anonymous]

Nobody that loves or cares about you would say these things to you. Dump him, work on yourself. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I've suffered all my life with something called body dismorphia disorder. It's crippling and I constantly think I'm unattractive, fat, etc.

And you don't need to have anyone in your life who reinforces those negative thoughts.

[Anonymous]

Is this a troll post? If she had body dysmorphia why is she saying she looks like avril lavigne, has big tits and only weighs 110 pounds? Wouldnt she say she looks like a whale and resembles shrek?

[Anonymous]

Or amy schumer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My new boyfriend is constantly commenting on the flaws of my body. I'm 26 and take good care of my skin but I have stretchmarks on my breasts, hips, and thighs from puberty. I'm not overweight - 5'1, 110lbs, big breasts. I'm self-conscious about them and my looks. I'm not the prettiest ( look like Avril Lavigne). Anyway, he always talks about one ex he dated that had " flawless" skin and how he doesn't find stretchmarks appealing. I get they aren't but there isn't much I can't do about them. I don't make fun of him that he is 29 with a dad bod. I've told him it hurts my feelings and then he says it's a joke and I need to lighten up. I am starting to lose interest ang want to break up but I don't want to act like a drama queen.

As Dan Savage says, DTMFA! He sounds like an ass ant that won't improve over time.

[Anonymous]

Ass ant--ha ha! Meant ass that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound beautiful to me OP. Dump that horrible man and find a nice guy who worships your body.

+1

[Anonymous]

I am a guy. I bet there is a guy out there who is really wants to go out with you and thinks you have a great body. Ditch this guy, do it today by text. Go find a guy who finds you attractive and thinks you have a great body. Life is too short, you have already made the decision(just not fully there yet). You are wasting time now.
Oh and I bet this guy was doing the same thing to the ex!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My new boyfriend is constantly commenting on the flaws of my body. I'm 26 and take good care of my skin but I have stretchmarks on my breasts, hips, and thighs from puberty. I'm not overweight - 5'1, 110lbs, big breasts. I'm self-conscious about them and my looks. I'm not the prettiest ( look like Avril Lavigne). Anyway, he always talks about one ex he dated that had " flawless" skin and how he doesn't find stretchmarks appealing. I get they aren't but there isn't much I can't do about them. I don't make fun of him that he is 29 with a dad bod. I've told him it hurts my feelings and then he says it's a joke and I need to lighten up. I am starting to lose interest ang want to break up but I don't want to act like a drama queen.

Male here,
if you're as good looking as you say, then dump him and find someone who finds you attractive. I think Lavigne is hot, and you're size weight (if accurate), is ideal. You should have dudes coming after you as long as you're not bitchy.

[Anonymous]

Dump this a hole. Seriously, what do you think will happen if you have kids and your boobs sage or you get more stretch marks?
There are plenty of men out there who aren't going to mentally abuse you.

[Anonymous]

What the actual fuck?!? Dump his ass. Boyfriend means "try me in for size" and his size doesn't fit you. Bye bye!!