Tacky to ask friends to help me paint?

[Anonymous]

If you were my close friend I would want you to ask.

[Anonymous]

I helped a friend paint the entire first floor and an upstairs spare bedroom of the house she had just bought. I think she was nearly 40!! I was happy to do it and we had fun. Please ask your friends, good ones would be sad to know you needed them and didn't let them know.

[Anonymous]

the people you are asking are YOUR FRIENDS! No one will think it is tacky because they are friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's pretty tacky.

[Anonymous]

I would totally do it for you OP! It's totally fine to ask, but maybe give them an out in case they want to say nno.

[Anonymous]

If I were childless (and maybe even if I'm not) I'd help OP. I'd be happy w/ pizza and drinks as payment.

If I had any inkling of what you had just left I would be so happy to actually be able to help you with something tangible that I'd be thrilled to ask.

All the best to you.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I had a friend in a similar situation. My heart broke for her. When she needed help moving, I totally wanted to lend a hand because I felt so powerless that I couldn't do anything to stop the pain she went through. I can't believe all the people saying it's tacky. They must be lucky to have never gone through hard times.

Just make it clear up front that your love some company and that if friends are willing to lend a hand that would be amazing. True friends will understand. I would, anyway, even though I hate painting.

[Anonymous]

I would want to help a friend in a situation like yours.

Good thing some of these PP are not your friends because there are some very selfish people here!

[Anonymous]

There are times when you have close friends where you can make "no questions asked" requests. This one is a no brainer especially since they know your situation. Ask them to help paint, but not as a party. The pizza, wine, and music will be the bonus for bonding.

[Anonymous]

Go ahead & ask them....the worst that could happen is they say "No" right??

If it is particularly hot + humid where you are living, I would try to postpone until the weather cools.
Trust me, no one wants to perform any physical/laborious task in this oppressive heat wave.

[Anonymous]

Just ask. If you were my friend, I would be thrilled to help out any way I could.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm 34. They are close friends. My bedroom is close to 300 SF. I've been working like crazy and will be over the next few weeks. It's hard to dedicate time to painting such a large space. Guess it's a bad idea. I'll just do it myself.

I don't think it's a big deal to ask for help from close friends who know what you've been through. I 100% would and pizza/beer sounds awesome.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:if you are cute and single i'd do it for free

If she's into three ways, I'd volunteer to assist.

[Anonymous]

If you're close and you'd for sure drop your plans to help them too. See if they want to paint a room also? While you're all in that mode?

If you do, definitely order dinner, and do something extra nice for then on top of that.

[Anonymous]

Some people LOVE to paint! I'm not one of them but a close friend and my MIL would drop everything to go paint someone's house. Doesn't hurt to ask ...