“‘Will you take my babies? Will you do this for me?'”

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


:l
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I adopted a family member's baby. The family member was not dying. It is a TON of work. It has caused a LOT of problems. There would be zero way to fold five more kids into our lives. You're asking if we would contribute to a fund, but I'm thinking about would I adopt six kids. No I wouldn't.


Neither would I. I have 4 already and I feel like it wouldn't be fair to my kids. The most I'd consider adopting is 1. If I had 6 kids and I was dying I can't imagine asking a friend to take on that burden, because it would seem really unfair. I'm sure there was a rush of emotion, but once the dust settles that is an insane amount of responsibility!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


I keep telling myself that I will not come back to this site because I really don't need to see responses like this. You are pretty much everything that is wrong with human race today.

Yes, the children asked to be born into a broken home. Yes, the children asked for their mother to get cancer and die. Yes, the children should now be broken into several homes just so you can feel better about it.

You are a horrible human being and I hope you never have children.

This article was about a family that did something that 90% of would not do (or would not be able to do). Instead of being happy for those children, or at least sigh some relief that they'll be together after losing their mother, you you have to say is "mother fucked around, her kids deserve to die alone." You are scum!!!


While I wouldn't express it the same way much of what you said resonates with me. Thanks.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would give to the GoFundMe. If I knew the family personally, I would strongly urge the adoptive family to pursue child support for these children whose fathers are so disinterested in them.


But if the couple adopted the children, I would assume they would be giving up any claim to child support. Once you adopt a kid, you don't get to ask the biological parents for money.

Am I wrong about this?

There's a lot in this story that doesn't add up, frankly.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


:l


Two fathers. That's hardly unusual.

And you're saying because these kids have asshole dads, you're going to double punish them by withholding charity you'd otherwise give?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


:l


Two fathers. That's hardly unusual.

And you're saying because these kids have asshole dads, you're going to double punish them by withholding charity you'd otherwise give?



+1
Anonymous
My ":l" was in response to the completely WTF nature of people getting on their high horses about families that deviate from the 1950s fictional picture of nuclear, for the record.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


:l


Two fathers. She had kids with two different men. One took off after she got sick. Real stand up guy. I am sure no one here has ever had kids with both a first and second husband or had their husband basically abandon the first family when he started his new one. Yup

Can people really be the moralistically cold and cruel as some of these posters.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


I keep telling myself that I will not come back to this site because I really don't need to see responses like this. You are pretty much everything that is wrong with human race today.

Yes, the children asked to be born into a broken home. Yes, the children asked for their mother to get cancer and die. Yes, the children should now be broken into several homes just so you can feel better about it.

You are a horrible human being and I hope you never have children.

This article was about a family that did something that 90% of would not do (or would not be able to do). Instead of being happy for those children, or at least sigh some relief that they'll be together after losing their mother, you you have to say is "mother fucked around, her kids deserve to die alone." You are scum!!!


So how much did you kick in to the Go Fund Me campaign?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


Mom is dead. Dads are gone. Any adult whose judgment was questionable in this situation is out of the picture. What exactly did the children do that makes you think it necessary to withhold your compassion?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


I keep telling myself that I will not come back to this site because I really don't need to see responses like this. You are pretty much everything that is wrong with human race today.

Yes, the children asked to be born into a broken home. Yes, the children asked for their mother to get cancer and die. Yes, the children should now be broken into several homes just so you can feel better about it.

You are a horrible human being and I hope you never have children.

This article was about a family that did something that 90% of would not do (or would not be able to do). Instead of being happy for those children, or at least sigh some relief that they'll be together after losing their mother, you you have to say is "mother fucked around, her kids deserve to die alone." You are scum!!!


No, my little peach, people like you who enable bad behavior to continue are what's wrong with the human race. Please tell me where anyone said anything about splitting up the kids.

And actually I have three children. I just didn't have to whore around with multiple daddies to get them. And if anything happens to me, mine will be provided for. I won't have to make a desperate plea to a poor friend from my deathbed.

Since you perceive yourself as being so compassionate, I would say that I hope you have adopted at least 5 needy children. But since I see that you don't have many brain cells to rub together, I hope that you never have/had/interact with children.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I stopped reading when the article noted the dying mom was a single mom to 6 kids and not one of the fathers (note the plural) was in the picture. Nope wouldn't give a penny.


I keep telling myself that I will not come back to this site because I really don't need to see responses like this. You are pretty much everything that is wrong with human race today.

Yes, the children asked to be born into a broken home. Yes, the children asked for their mother to get cancer and die. Yes, the children should now be broken into several homes just so you can feel better about it.

You are a horrible human being and I hope you never have children.

This article was about a family that did something that 90% of would not do (or would not be able to do). Instead of being happy for those children, or at least sigh some relief that they'll be together after losing their mother, you you have to say is "mother fucked around, her kids deserve to die alone." You are scum!!!


No, my little peach, people like you who enable bad behavior to continue are what's wrong with the human race. Please tell me where anyone said anything about splitting up the kids.

And actually I have three children. I just didn't have to whore around with multiple daddies to get them. And if anything happens to me, mine will be provided for. I won't have to make a desperate plea to a poor friend from my deathbed.

Since you perceive yourself as being so compassionate, I would say that I hope you have adopted at least 5 needy children. But since I see that you don't have many brain cells to rub together, I hope that you never have/had/interact with children.


I agree with the PP. But would add detestable to "you are scum."
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