| You know, it's not trophies for participation that lead to failure--it's coaches like me who push kids to get better and to support the stars - yes I get it that your way leads to failure. |
| I don't really get why you can't coach all kids and not just your superstars. Your superstars probably already have dads who coach them and are born with sports genes so I can't credit you with their talent. If you were a great coach you wouldn't need an internet chat board to help you. |
Great...go coach a travel/select team. But as long as you're coaching rec, get your head out of your ass. |
WOW, that could not be more wrong. All you did was spot the bigger faster 8 year old and determined who was worth your time. You have NO CLUE at 8 or 9 years old how any kid will turn out. Stay out of coaching! |
That will come back to bite you in the ass one day, when your kids could use a mentor in something other than throwing a ball around. Parents don't forget coaches like you. Dont fuck with other people's kids, and certainly don't criticize parents' relationships with their kids. They will be fine it itceintvebdcat all well for you. |
"itceintvebdcat"??? Speak English, pal. |
If you are VYI for third grade, there is apparently a new AAU club starting up at this age group. Sounds like you should encourage your coach and his 4 best players to go play there instead. Then they'll be the kids who never touch the ball or get a chance to play and get a taste of their own medicine. |
| I fervently hope my kids never ever get a coach like you. And I have one of each - my son is a fantastic athlete and my DD is, as you say a "try hard" kid. |
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If this is first-year basketball, all the coaches are dealing with this issue (some good, some not-so-good players). Have you thought about talking to other coaches and playing an "A" team for the first quarter and a "B" team for the second quarter? Would allow you to have your good players be able to play with each other and learn the game, and would allow the B players have a shot at making some plays if they are playing a B defense too.
Then second half, mix and match as you see fit. Just an idea. Good luck. |
Another idea is to focus on the practices as a method by which you weed out the losers. At least in Arlington County a monitor from Parks and Rec shows up at each gym to keep an eye on things and make sure each kid gets a fair shake. But they don't go to practices. So get together with another team, preferably a really good one in another division or in a "one-year-up" age group, and practice at the same time. Run demo drills using only your best players, except for pick and roll drills put in the kids you want to quit as the ones who get slammed on the "pick". Then scrimmage the last 20 minutes of the hourlong practice, but use your best players for all but the last couple of minutes. That way your good kids get just as much focused practice time as in a "fair" program, while the losers just sit around for an hour. Tell the parent that you need to maximize practice time, but the kid will play in the game "when it matters". Then you tell your good players to run pick-and-roll or pick-and-pop iso work in the games, so that the other kids never touch the ball. The end result is that the losers have a miserable time. You get one or two to quit, and you're down to say seven players instead of nine. As you only have to play the stiffs a couple of quarters, you can max out the time your good kids play. |
You understand that this is rec right? You are just as awful a human being as the original poster and the original poster defender. It is called travel if you want competition. Rec is intended to expose kids to a sport and teach them the fundamentals. If the kids are so awesome, then they should go and play travel, becasue Rec is not for them. |
| Question! My boys are 10 and 7 and don't know how to play basketball. According to your coaching philosophy, is it basically too late for them? What age, in your opinion, is too late? Because if you can't start in rec league then where exactly can you start? |
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Yo have 7 players . The best are A, medium B, try yards are C
AABBCCC q1: AABBC (Gould players start, period, that is a lesson) Q2: ABCCC Q3: ABBCC q4: AACCC (sub with some B's if you need to instruct a C) |
| OP and 17:49 -- in what leagues do you coach? |
It is irrelevant what I coach. As a rec coach I think you simply fail to understand your role. You are an ambassador and teacher of the sport. And that means it is your job to teach the sport to the best of your ability and to the ability of the all the kids on your team. Winning at rec, or coaching to win at rec, especially at this age, is NOT your job. If you want to win then you are coaching at the wrong level. |