New Poll - for married folk

[Anonymous]

No, never had that though
I used to, then was glad he was on travel sometimes and most of the time just glad he is not traveling anymore
14 years

[Anonymous]

Yes.
Yes.
Married 11 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her?
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip?
How long have you been married?

Yes
Yes
Big yes
Married 5 years and we have a toddler

[Anonymous]

Sometimes (LOTS when we first were together)
not really but only because I like the time alone and it is infrequent
together 25 yrs, married 15

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her?
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip?
How long have you been married?

No
Use to, but not anymore (he traveled so much recently that now I like it when he's not here).
22 years

[Anonymous]

Rarely
Usually
8 years

[Anonymous]

No, no, and yes because she can help with kids.

Dh 9 years married. Generally a good marriage. I am floored people still have butterflies for their spouse several years in. Love and attraction I can understand but butterflies?

[Anonymous]

No, yes, married 7 yrs (together for 14).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, no, and yes because she can help with kids.

Dh 9 years married. Generally a good marriage. I am floored people still have butterflies for their spouse several years in. Love and attraction I can understand but butterflies?

I'm one of the butterfly pps, I know it sounds corny, but I still get butterflies when I think of/see him, and the goofy grin too.
It just hasn't worn off. I love him in deeper and more meaningful ways now of course, but he still gives me that rush. Can't help it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her?
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip?
How long have you been married?

Not really those butterflies, but I do get warm feelings at times. (In addition to just everyday love).

I am THRILLED he's gone and SAD he's gone all at the same time. I get to cook my Indian food that he hates, leave the windows open, watch whatever I want on TV, cook whatever I want for dinner, read all my books. But I miss cuddling with him, his jokes, discussing politics, my kids hugging him silly, discussing out day, asking his advice, giving him mine.

10 years next month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her?
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip?
How long have you been married?

No. Yes. 11 years. He is my very best friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her? every once in a while
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip? yes when they are frequent, if it is just a day or two here and there, then no
How long have you been married? 21 years

[Anonymous]

Sometimes to both. Married a year, together three.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Does your heart still "flutter" or do you get "butterflies" when you see him/her?
Do you miss him/her when he/she is on a business trip?
How long have you been married?

Rarely, but it happens.

Yes.

25 years.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes.
Of course-- he's my best friend, and I'm lonely without him
17 years, 2 kids (11 & 13)