I'd want YOU - the parent - to be responsible for YOUR kid on YOUR end. I teach. I'm also the parent of two children in the same system. My older child has a calendar in her room where so adds in tests, projects, long-term HW assignments, etc. If she forgets something, it's on her. life of hard knocks I don't expect the teachers to go after her every single day to ensure she's doing her homework. If there's a pattern, that will be noted and parents will be contacted. But if you don't talk to your own children, you don't see patterns on your end. We have 130+ kids to teach. You have your own. Be responsible and stop placing blame elsewhere. |
I get the "it's on her" statement. I am not getting the "it's on me" statement ... but I never owned a helicopter, can't afford one. Are you going to have her college professors email you when an assignment is late. I will make sure my child can cook, clean, change a tire, volunteer, cut the lawn, do laundry, treats people with respect, etc. There is a paper due, okay, unless there is an IEP situation I don't know why this is something you need to email me about. |
You sound ridiculously rigid, teacher. And I'm guessing you have phone phobia...sad. How old are you??? |
But pp's kids have special needs, so she should have made that a priority |
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So what did the actual student say? Did you bother to (gasp) speak to the student?
Oh, that's right...you have 130 students (a day...)...no time to speak to a student, right? PS - Maybe try using a zero instead of a Z? How the hell are we supposed to know what a Z means? After all, P means Puppy dogs and rainbows in MCPSLand. |
Yes, PP should make her child's special needs a priority, and follow up with the teacher promptly when she doesn't hear her. |
| I am blown away by the responses in this thread, the number of people who seem to think they should have zero (or near zero) responsibility for their kids' education. I knew there were some people out there who felt that way, but I really thought they were few and far between. We can debate all day long about how involved a parent should be in their kids' education, but if a teacher is trying to contact you about a problem at school, and you don't make the effort to follow up and at least find out what's going on and whether there's something you should do about it, that's just terrible. |
I believe OP already followed up to say that she'd spoken to the child repeatedly but the work still hadn't shown up, and that's why she was reaching out to the parents. |
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This is why big assignments should be mostly done in the classroom with smaller parts done at home and "chunked".
The really good assignments were done by the kids moms. The average assignments were actually done by the kids. How are you going to compare my kids assignment... that I require him to do 100% himself... with an assignment that was managed, coordinated and finished by a mom with a PhD. |
Yeah, that has nothing to do with what we're talking about here. |
Sorry teacher. Same reason only a handful of parents show up on the one Open House a year. Most parents use school as daycare these days only. No interest. |
Z is an official MCPS grade. Not some code a random teacher made up. Any parent who doesn't find out what a Z means after seeing it on their kid's Edline has already dropped the ball. |
| Show me a link on edline that explains what a Z is? |
It's explained at back to school night every year. Signed, A MCPS Parent |
I attended back to school night, and I didn't catch the part about Z. Signed, Mcps parent who thinks mcps is run by a bunch of knuckleheads |