Anyone else think some of these posts are fake as they have the exact same theme....

[Anonymous]

It would be wonderful if we could all collectively agree to not indulge it anymore, but this is the internet so I doubt that will happen.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh stop with the pity party. It's not women's fault that you're inept at reading their body language. And if a woman is not communicating with you, it's because you have not gone to the effort to make her feel comfortable. She's worried about offending your fragile ego with some constructive criticism.

I do just fine and have plenty of ladies demanding repeat visits. Frequently.

-DCUM Single Guy in 30s with a Line of Women Outside His Bedroom Door (and an Above Average Member)

You sound awesome. And hot.

-Single girl in her mid 20s who can appreciate an above average member

Hi Single Girl in 20s, this is the Original DCUM Single Guy:

Call me anytime

We can enjoy a drink and laugh at the pathetic MRA trolls

[Anonymous]

Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

Even educated, high earning women can have terrible self-esteem. That's really who the MRA trolls are trying to score.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

Even educated, high earning women can have terrible self-esteem. That's really who the MRA trolls are trying to score.

Looks like the only one trying to score is Above Average Member guy with his faux-feminism schtick.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

Even educated, high earning women can have terrible self-esteem. That's really who the MRA trolls are trying to score.

Looks like the only one trying to score is Above Average Member guy with his faux-feminism schtick.

It's not faux. Equality is sexy. I love a confident, smart woman who makes more money than I do (hint: I make 6 figures so I'm no slouch). You know what turns a woman on? When you can genuinely celebrate her successes. They don't threaten me in the least bit.

Sadly, you have much to learn about women. But before you do that, you have to learn how to not be bitter.

-DCUM Single Guy in his 30s with a Highly Complimented Member

[Anonymous]

I just think this is an epidemic in our country.

After a certain amount of time, the excitement and giddiness goes away. Things go stale.

Couples tend to take each other for granted later on down the line and fall into their own comfort zones where they sit like couch potatoes.

[Anonymous]

I doubt the posts are fake or from the same people. To the OP who questioned this, I hope you never have to deal with a big libido difference in an otherwise healthy marriage. It can become so toxic to the marriage it can kill the rest of what is working.

But I do agree there seem to be a few posters from both sexes who pollute these boards with projecting their own hate. It's unfortunate because there can be practical suggestions, or at least an opportunity to see things from another perspective and empathize with the position of the high drive/low drive spouse. But you can predict that within the first several responses, the haters will derail the discussion with one side telling the man he sucks in bed and the other side telling the woman she is a controlling bitch.

[Anonymous]

I sometimes fake posts as performance art. I collect the responses and will be including them in a book I'm going to self-publish.

[Anonymous]

NP here:

I think most of the posts are real. People tend to come to this forum when things go bad. I used to look at relationship posts a couple times a month just to feel better about my not so perfect marriage.

Then exdh had an affair and I came looking for some help and commiseration. This board was really helpful to me at that time.

I notice the same pattern frequently. People post the same questions when they first find this forum. Most are in difficult situations and often they have not spent any significant time reading this forum. So for them, these questions are new and fresh.

I stick around to try to offer that same support to newcomers. I'm sure there are trolls from time to time, but even those posts can offer good advice or maybe a laugh to someone who could use one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

Even educated, high earning women can have terrible self-esteem. That's really who the MRA trolls are trying to score.

Looks like the only one trying to score is Above Average Member guy with his faux-feminism schtick.

It's not faux. Equality is sexy. I love a confident, smart woman who makes more money than I do (hint: I make 6 figures so I'm no slouch). You know what turns a woman on? When you can genuinely celebrate her successes. They don't threaten me in the least bit.

Sadly, you have much to learn about women. But before you do that, you have to learn how to not be bitter.

-DCUM Single Guy in his 30s with a Highly Complimented Member

Cool story, bro.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it really an MRA troll? Educated, high earning women seems like a bad audience for that shit.

Even educated, high earning women can have terrible self-esteem. That's really who the MRA trolls are trying to score.

Looks like the only one trying to score is Above Average Member guy with his faux-feminism schtick.

It's not faux. Equality is sexy. I love a confident, smart woman who makes more money than I do (hint: I make 6 figures so I'm no slouch). You know what turns a woman on? When you can genuinely celebrate her successes. They don't threaten me in the least bit.

Sadly, you have much to learn about women. But before you do that, you have to learn how to not be bitter.

-DCUM Single Guy in his 30s with a Highly Complimented Member

Never thought I would get turned on from a DCUM post.... but there's a first for everything.

I think I need to go have some alone time

[Anonymous]

Many of the posts on here are fake in my opinion. I've noticed quite a few repeat topics that are word for word. Also, there are too many OPs that disappear.

[Anonymous]

^^ How can you tell if an OP disappears when they're anonymous?