Short and pointless mil vent

[Anonymous]

"That's not going to work for us under the present circumstances." No need to say another thing about it after that, except to repeat if she presses.

[Anonymous]

We'd be on our way to a nearby hotel after that comment.

[Anonymous]

Get out now. It is bound to get worse.

[Anonymous]

Hotel. Now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"That's not going to work for us under the present circumstances." No need to say another thing about it after that, except to repeat if she presses.

this is an awesome quote. i am going to use it with MY mil for completely different situation.

[Anonymous]

Here is your technique to handle any and all assholes from this day forward:

Stare pointedly at the asshole, and continue doing whatever the heck you wanted to do.

No need to waste any words.

[Anonymous]

I have a four year old. I haven't been fully rested since I was 7 months pregnant. I expect to "catch up" on my sleep approximately 2 months after he leaves for college, I suspect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course you don't agree with her sexist patriarchal views so why would you even think of doing what she says you should do.

I also don't understand why any family would willingly put themselves in the situation that you are in. Once I had kids, I stopped the 30 people trying to survive in one house kind of visits. This is fine for a meal but not for sleeping and bathing.

You went along with this op.

+1

Seriously, we are too old and make too much money to deal with this kind of shit.

[Anonymous]

I don't believe this story.

[Anonymous]

I love to smile at people when they suggest ridiculous things. I like to smile really big and sweetly tell them.
"Nope, not doing that."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't believe this story.

I'm happy that you've never experienced crazy or dysfunctional family members who don't favor you. Some of us have. I admit I'm jealous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really don't understand why families cram into one house without enough beds for everyone. Is it 5 people per bathroom? Get a hotel.
I really hope your husband wouldnt actually take the bed from you.

Because of money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, what culture is MIL from that she puts a man's comfort ahead of a pregnant woman's? Or is she just wacko? I'd ignore it all and do as I please. It's just a visit. Your husband had better be looking out for you.

The white protestant culture?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't believe this story.

I'm happy that you've never experienced crazy or dysfunctional family members who don't favor you. Some of us have. I admit I'm jealous.

Believe it! Five years ago, my ILs bought a condo near the beach. It's a two bedroom (and a small curtained alcove with a daybed) bath condo that's just about perfect for my family of five. Nope, ILs want my family of five, their DD, her DH and two kids and the grandparents to ALL be "under one roof." We did this once and I'll never do it again. No, eleven people in a tiny condo is unworkable.

ILs think we're uptight because we don't want to spend vacations with them at their condo. Unworkable now that we have opposite sex teens who no longer care to share a room or a bed.