I had an employee tell me at a happy hour
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Anonymous
| She has no boundaries. Super inappropriate. |
Anonymous
Well, some cultures people talk freely about sex. |
Anonymous
| Yes, she was testing the waters. Good chance if you had asked a few questions such as...cobwebs?...why that's terrible, just how do you like a man to sweep those away? Or, hump a pole huh? If I bring some 5's could I watch? If you did that I feel fairly certain you would have gotten lucky. AND, then you would have one hell of a next day at work and other complications. |
Anonymous
| OP, was it a group happy hour or just you two? |
Anonymous
It was a happy hour to celebrate one of my other employees getting promoted. |
Anonymous
It's 11pm. You've been posting since 2pm. You're supposedly happily married. Maybe a co-worker is attracted to you. Maybe not. None of us was there. Why are dragging this out? Are you that bored or desperate for attention? 
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Anonymous
He is bored and wants the ego boost. Doesn't realize someone who talks like that cannot keep mouth shut about an affair so tread carefully. |
Anonymous
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Was she inebriated when she told you all of this? If so, she may want to sleep w/you, but for obvious reasons this would be a horrible idea.
Best not to attend Happy Hours w/her in the future. Even if she was sober when she mentioned this, I would still keep a distance from her socially. Too weird. |
Anonymous
I think the employee is probably interested in sleeping with you. It doesn't necessarily mean that much since it has been a long time for her and she may not be too choosy right now. But it seems that's what she was conveying -- UNLESS there was a single attractive male also in earshot and her comments were really directed toward him, and you being married were a lower threat person that she could make her comments to. |
Anonymous
| OP still hasn't answered the question: Would he hit it or not if the situation were to present itself again? |
Anonymous
| You said she's an "employee," so you do mean you're her boss? |
Anonymous
she's a pig. Gross. |
Anonymous
| If cobwebs turn you on, go for it. |
Anonymous
OP here. No, i wouldn't. I'm very happily married and have dodged more attractive bullets than her. |
Anonymous
Yes, I'm her boss. |