Are there any great OBs out there? Every option has to many cons :-( and mixed reviews

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nope, there are no great OBs. We all used horrible OBs. You should probably have your husband learn how to deliver the baby at home. Actually, he'll probably screw up so you should just do it yourself. Then you can guarantee no c-section!

This is helpful,,,, OB is clearly upset, why not help vs being nasty about it?

This at least OP's 10th thread asking the same thing over and over.

Agree with directly above poster, it's becoming ridiculously redundant.

[Anonymous]

Of course all OBs have much higher c-section rates than midwives: midwives cannot perform c-sections, and won't take patients who will clearly need one to begin with.

[Anonymous]

Ok sorry I am confused and wanted some help. I'll leave the board now and try to figure this out on my own. I am sorry I have had bad experiences and I am scared.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok sorry I am confused and wanted some help. I'll leave the board now and try to figure this out on my own. I am sorry I have had bad experiences and I am scared.

There is on particular poster who has serious anxiety, one bad experience, and is posting an unhealthy about asking about 100% of the same practices you are over and over again. She then denied posting some of them, even though you can tell it is her. You sound a lot like her. If you're not, maybe search for her threads. If you are her, you've gotten so much helpful feedback and the next step is making a choice and trying to get real help with your anxiety. You can only ask so much of people and reject their help before frustration is natural...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nope, there are no great OBs. We all used horrible OBs. You should probably have your husband learn how to deliver the baby at home. Actually, he'll probably screw up so you should just do it yourself. Then you can guarantee no c-section!

This is helpful,,,, OB is clearly upset, why not help vs being nasty about it?

People have given helpful feedback that OP has ignored. OP probably needs to get off the internetand onto some anti-anxiety meds.

Fixed that for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok sorry I am confused and wanted some help. I'll leave the board now and try to figure this out on my own. I am sorry I have had bad experiences and I am scared.

Please get mental health help. You're scared? They're doctors, not serial killers. You'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok sorry I am confused and wanted some help. I'll leave the board now and try to figure this out on my own. I am sorry I have had bad experiences and I am scared.

Honey, we've all had to figure this out on our own.

Go to doc 1:
A. Stay
B. Find new doc.

Go to doc 2:
A. Stay
B. Find new doc.

Rinse, repeat...

This is how all decisions in life are made. Bye!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok sorry I am confused and wanted some help. I'll leave the board now and try to figure this out on my own. I am sorry I have had bad experiences and I am scared.

There is on particular poster who has serious anxiety, one bad experience, and is posting an unhealthy about asking about 100% of the same practices you are over and over again. She then denied posting some of them, even though you can tell it is her. You sound a lot like her. If you're not, maybe search for her threads. If you are her, you've gotten so much helpful feedback and the next step is making a choice and trying to get real help with your anxiety. You can only ask so much of people and reject their help before frustration is natural...

Not her but I did see her threads, grabbed some OBs from there., I saying "I'm scared" was exaggeration, I am just nervous about making a switch, like the anxious mom, just not as bad as her. I posted two threads this one and the one linked in page 2 that got no replies. I'm not going to Check back here.