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Anonymous wrote:If you shop at tea, boden, etc. HHI 275k, different genders so no hand me downs. Thanks!
We have a HHI of $400k+, but buy nearly 100% of all items used from thrift stores. The max I'd pay for an item would be maybe $4-$5 for a coat. Everything else would be $1 and nothing more. My son looks as cute as can be in his $.80 Gymboree skeleton pjs that were brand new at the thrift store with their 75% off Halloween items as he would if he were wearing Xmas pjs. I figure one day they will HAVE to have this or that shoe/brand, but for now (age 6.5 for boy and 9 for girl) it works for us. So no budget per se but rather we don't buy any piece of non outerwear clothing that is more than $1 an item. I don't buy what I don't need - so cute or not I won't be getting shirts if we have shirts.
Oh - and we also try to resell our clothing for dirt cheap when we outgrow it (so maybe $.50/item) or $20 for an entire wardrobe and put it towards the next things we need. I just spend $5 on a brand new (tag on) ski suit for my 9 year old and I didn't even want to spend that on it for something used just on occasion. I figured if I didn't buy it now, however, if I waited until I needed it, I'd be spending $50+.
I remember this poster, she buys used undies. Trash.
I haven't posted before so you couldn't "remember" me. I don't buy used underwear, actually. Underwear and shoes are always new. I often buy socks new too, only because I can't find them used on most occasions. Think what you want, but
I figure my kids will be much happier one day when I present them with college - and grad school, if they like - fully paid for. I'm not dissing you for your choices, so why dis me for mine? I will have no issue paying hundreds for a prom dress, but that will be a rare thing because
we do want to prioritize things like retirement and college, over other things like clothing for our kids. Mine look no different from yours. Son is in Gymboree cords today with a Janie and Jack long sleeved shirt. He has a Gymboree coat on as well. My daughter has on her North Face coat over her Nordstrom dress. Trash? I think not.