I think you are making things out to be worse than they are. You were not able to find fulfilling work as a lawyer, but the legal market is bad. You had one job as a social worker where you liked the work, but not the work environment. It's not like you were fired from jobs. I do employment law, and regularly deal with people who are failures at their jobs. Believe me, you're fine. |
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I am a school counselor and I love, love my job. It isn't easy, and I don't always feel successful, but I don't let that stop me from getting up each day and trying a fresh approach. You would need to work in a school system that hires social workers (or a private school), but it isn't boring, and it is very real-world, as opposed to translating technical data or focusing on writing grants or briefs or whatever, and every day is different.
However, my opinion is that your lack of traditional "success" may be tied more to your low self-concept than your actual capacity to be successful. I mean this kindly, but if you are this self-deprecating in a work environment, it will erode the confidence others will have in you and also may make you tiresome to be around. I would do some good self-care before starting a job search in earnest. Maybe a career counselor plus some exercise plus a competent therapist plus some interesting volunteer work to build your confidence and sense of efficacy. Stop playing that negative tape in your head--just because you think it doesn't mean it is true! |
Since you have not worked for 5 years I would recommend looking at non-profits that specialize in elder law/policy/social issues and see if they would be willing to take you on in a volunteer capacity in order to gain some recent and relevant employment experience. |
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I'm the PP who is a Social Worker. I've worked in a variety of settings. Some I hated with the passion of 1000 suns and some I've adored. Not all SW positions are created equally (as with any position.) I'd volunteer a bit to see what interests you.
What part of the SW experience did you find stressful? The work environment? The clients? Dealing with problems/crisis all day? |
There are lots of community nonprofits, local government agencies, hospitals, rehabilitation centers, and nursing homes that have geriatric social workers. The aging population is growing, and your experience is still relevant. Volunteer at a senior center or other organization to get your foot in the door. If you don't have a valid social work license, prepare for and take the exam again--heck of a lot easier than the bar. You can take CPE classes related to seniors, and use them as an opportunity to network. Don't beat yourself up for getting a JD you won't use. Your MSW is useful. Your career has not been a failure--you worked in a field you loved and were good at, and you can get back in it. You just need a little more confidence in yourself. |
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With a JD/MSW, you would be a huge find for any agency that works with domestic violence or child abuse victims. You'd be a treasure as a family law attorney. You'd be a find for a prosecutor's office or a public defender's office. You'd be a great probation/parole officer. You'd be a good mediator. You'd be a good counselor for anyone who is working a drug court or a diversion court. You'd be good in juvenile court, on either side. You need a license for some of that, but you can pass the bar, if you want to. If you take BarBri, they will spoon feed you what you need to know to take the bar exam. Have you ever been assessed for ADHD? It frequently looks way more inattentive, than hyperactive, in women. That might be part of your problem with being unable to focus on stuff that doesn't interest you. |
I like this idea OP. Consider a private special needs school. My son attends one. Very very rewarding. |
| Work in a school as a school social worker! I know alot of JDs in my field who are not attorneys. They either never used the degree or hated it when they used it. |
You can't get hired as a lawyer if you avoid taking the bar exam. Lawyers typically hardly use any of the content we learned during law school so having gotten As or no longer remembering any of it-neither impacts your day to day activities in a legal job. I found law school boring, had to retake the bar, and I'm now doing a legal job that doesn't take much advocating, negotiating, no trial work, no need to do biz dev, no need to bill in 6 min increments. It's not a paralegal job and you do have to analyze and write but frankly anyone, even without a JD, could do this after training. Such jobs exist. It's not great but an ok fringe legal job. |
Totally agree with everything the pp said (I have a dh, ds and dd with ADHD and now I realize that I probably have a mild case myself). During law school I worked for a small law firm that did tax (what I liked) and family law (father/son firm). Sometimes I had to help the dad with his family law cases and it was tough seeing all of the emotion. He would just sit there going through the file while people were sobbing. Having someone with social work training would be amazing for clients. Don't sell yourself short -- you have amazing credentials. Take the bar, take some CLE and start thinking about what interests you. |
| You could also do psychiatric case management for insurance companies. Some of those are work from home jobs. |
Please stop asking if you are dumb because I'm tempted to say YES, you are dumb, but not for the reasons you think. The thing that makes you dumb is not that you don't understand certain things, it's that you make excuses for what you don't understand by calling those things complicated and boring. Seriously, you sound like an entitled whiner who had every opportunity to pursue whatever you wanted to, parroted what was expected of you, and then rejected the skills and experiences you had the luxury of gaining because you found it all so boring and complicated. You sound lazy. Very, very lazy. That's what you sound like. That might not be who you are. You may be depressed and overwhelmed and without guidance. You may be realizing that career success, or any success, doesn't depend on checking off an A in a class. So, what now? You will only be successful at something you really care about and something you are willing to put your mind to. You mention being attracted to geriatric case management. Do this. Put all your effort into doing this. You have the credentials, but more importantly, you have the interest and drive for this work. Do this and stop whining about complicated and boring stuff. It's only boring and complicated because you don't value it. If you don't value it, you don't deserve to work in it. I'm sorry, sort of, for the tough talk. I do really hope you find work you want to do. |
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Op, I was very surprised that you have neither license in your fields. You should ABSOLUTELY either take the bar or work toward licensure (licsw).
Absolutely. It sounds like you are not desperate for the money. Take the time you need to cross the finish line here. |
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OP, I think you need therapy to figure out why you have these self-esteem issues and regrets.
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I'm a Licsw and it's would be impossible to work in a public school without licensure. Every jurisdiction requires a incense mostly at a Licsw level. I worked as a social worker in various fields from school counseling, child welfare, medical, home health, care management, dialysis, mental health. If you are not interested in getting a licensure I would suggest you look at federal jobs. My spouse also has a msw and went the administration or macro route. He worked for the federal government for 15 yrs as a director. The federal govt will reward you having a degree and are less stringent regarding licensure. Look at Csosa, Pretrial service agency, dept of justice, and dc courts. The federal government compensates really well. My spouse was a gs15 with a low 6 figure job. There are study prep classes and books to help you prepare to take the lgsw. Study it and take the test. Receive supervision for two years and than take the lcsw. With the lcsw your will have many more opportunities like consulting and private practice especially if interested in direct practice. It all can seem overwhelming just make a plan and work towards your goal. You are more marketable than you think you just have to get the credentials . You done the hard part which was committing yourself and finishing grad and law school. I wish you well.
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