Unity church-
All people are inherently good because God is good. God is the same God no matter what your preferred name for Him/Her/It. All paths toward spirituality are valued. Commitment to diversity. People are people. Inclusive and open. Emphasis on affirmative prayer and meditation. Our thoughts are prayers and create our reality. We live in a benevolent, responsive Universe. Love for the earth. Commitment to help those who are struggling. |
No way in hell you'll find wine at a Baptist Church. |
Indian culture is big on hospitality, so all Indian hosts will try and make sure that their guests only get the best food and drinks. At least those who can afford will not scrimp on it. I love that aspect of Indian culture. Good food is always welcome. I also like the dancing and the music. I find it joyous. Again this is not Hindu religion but the culture of the entire subcontinent. I find that I also like any culture that puts the enjoyment and comfort of their guests first. I do not find that materialistic at all. I am quite surprised that your Hindu DH thinks so. There is no religious compulsion to throw these parties, you know? Unlike other religions, you have to do absolutely nothing to be a Hindu. You do not have to go to a temple or pray etc. I like the fact that Hinduism believes that you will get back the exact Karma (deed) that you do. So, you cannot say that I killed a person, but I accepted Vishnu in my life and now I am forgiven. |
It is a huge part of the culture, but this does stem from a verse in the Vedas. Athithi Devo Bhav, comes from the Taittiriya Upanishad. Roughly translated, it means to treat your guest (even unexpected guests) as akin to how you would treat God. Basically with much hospitality. The entire verse states to "Do not forget God and the hard work of your ancestors. Treat your mother akin to God, Treat your father akin to God, Treat your teacher akin to God and Treat your guest akin to God". No where does it say to throw parties obviously, but definitely implies offerings, which is generally some food and drink. There are also many Hindu religious stories that involve serving meals to guests. Some of which show the act of giving food to your guest even if you need to sacrifice the meal yourself if there is not enough to go around. |
Generally, I like prayer traditions, charity, holy days, saints, prophets, and fasting.
If I couldn't belong to an Abrahamic faith, I'd be Wiccan. I like the idea of doing what you will as long as it hurts no one. (The problem of course is defining harm. My Wiccan friends argue among themselves about infidelity and abortion.) |
And it's never good wine. Too sweet and then watered down. --a Catholic |
The Baha'i Faith - the unity of all religions, the equality of women and men, oneness of humanity, no clergy, modern teachings about current issues, no alcohol. www.bahai.org |