Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Or maybe he's like me (a female) and just has a low sex drive I'm not pathological and I don't need to be fixed
That said, op and op's DH clearly need some pointed communication about their mismatch because it is putting stress on their relationship. No argument there (op -- I'd recommend a handful of sessions with a counselor who serves as a neutral facilitator). But I'm so sick of DCUM deciding that any adult who doesn't want to fuck several times a week for a decade or more is sick and damaged.
I think anyone who doesn't want to fuck several times a week is pathetic.