
You mean the challenging situation the parents got themselves into? IUI is elective. This grotesque case shows why it should be regulated. The fact that the doctors aren't held accountable in any way is outrageous. |
Surely it's cheaper than 8 kids? |
Neither is a saint |
I made the original "selfish" comment but maybe went too far. I agree that "not a saint either" is probably accurate. |
Where do you get your info? The number of kids that you can get from IVF is determined by two primary factors: 1) the number of fertilized eggs that you implants (some clinics have limits some don't) and 2) whether you perform a "reduction" (basically an abortion). These are not "odds" they are choices and its clear that this family "chose" to implant at least 8 (or some split) AND did not go the "reduction" route. |
Well it would be if diaper companies et al didn't use families like that for publicity and donate tons of supplies! It is bizarre how this kind of thing is glorified in this country. |
Um, maybe from the 3 IVF cycles I've done. Clearly you have no idea what you're talking about since you used the terminology "implant" embryos which is a pet peave of just about anyone who has done IVF or works in the infertility field. You don't implant embryos, you transfer them. Implantation is what may or may not happen to those embryos and is the step of IVF that can't be controlled. As to some clinics not having limits on how many embryos are transferred, I challenge you to find ONE that doesn't. This is not some decision made willy nilly by patients. Many if not all reputable clinics have growing numbers of women (virtually all of those who are are under 35 when they do IVF) who chose to only transfer one embryo at the heavy suggestion of their physician. Tranferring 8 is unheard of. Maybe it was done 10 years ago but not today. IVF is becoming a highly controlled process and I predict in the next few years an overwhelming number of transfers will be of single embryos. THis is the wave of the future (quickly becoming the present) of IVF. Higher order multiples are almost guarenteed to be the result of a poorly monitored injectible IUI cycle or a cancelled (for too many follicles) IUI that was followed by intercourse. For reference, the John&Kate+8 sextuplets are the result of an IUI that went all wrong. Next time, please don't correct someone else unless you know what you are talking about. |
overpopulation? are you kidding me? please, 7 more children is not going to move the dial. you have no right to judge this woman. |
you know, you don't know her situation. she may have had 6 failed ivfs previously or 4 miscarriages. her life isn't going to be easy if the kids have problems. she will need to take care of them forever... so don't judge her. |
HOM can result from an ob/gyn prescribing clomid as a first attempt to treat unexplained fertility. The REs monitor and do ultrasounds to check how many follicles. Obs can prescribe clomid for several cycles as a first attempt to resolve issues. If a woman responds too well she has no idea she released too many eggs. Hop over to the TTC board sometime, lots of advice on why not to go with your ob's advice on fertility but try to go straight to a RE.
HOM can also occur if the RE does read the ultrasound correctly. It can occur if the RE sees too many follicles and says just wait to have intercourse until next cycle and the mom still does. They can miscalculate the dates/times to avoid sex. It can just be a fluke with the fertility treatments. No one on this board knows what went wrong so calling the mother or the doctor names isn't very appropriate. |
For what I've heard it was a cancelled IUI (because she had too many follicles) but they went ahead and had intercourse. Well, there isn't really a way for doctors to stop people from having intercourse in those situations. Agree with you pp - clinics do self-regulate and at Shady Grove for instance, they didn't want to go on with an IUI because I had more than 3 follies developing - I was luck that one stopped growing at the end (below 15mm). |
I have said that I went overboard by calling her selfish. But knowing she had 6 failed IVFs or 4 miscarriages would not change the ethics of it for me. Ethically a parent should still put the health of her future children above her emotional needs. As hard as it must be to care for differently abled children I can't imagine knowing one's conscious decision -- to have biological children at any cost -- contributed to their condition makes caring for them any easier. You are right that she should be pitied. |