how on earth can we save a down payment?
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| This. Cut your groceries to $125 a week or less. Shop at Aldi. Eat less meat. But you have a ways to go. Can you move to a cheaper apartment? |
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| How do you use those phones that are talk/text only when you work full time and need to be able to answer emails remotely? |
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We live in an old house which wastes a TON of energy. The landlord told us the complete opposite before we moved in. Now we are stuck for one year. We pay for everything: trash removal, water, heat, A/C, power, and so on.... |
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This. DH saved a significant amount of cash including from his early 20s. We got no help from family; however, we are both professionals w/ pretty decent salaries. We were married at 32 and then bought a house at 34. We bought the house we would raise our family in (n. arlington) b/c we realized that we had already missed the boat on getting a starter house and then trying to roll that over into a bigger house (once you factored in closing costs). Even so, it would have been a challenge to save the amount we did w/ childcare costs (we have a nanny) for two kids. We did not have kids until 3 1/2 yrs later at 38, but that wasn't b/c of the house. We, rather, I was not ready before then to start thinking of raising a family. If you do the math, depending on where you live, it may not be worth it to buy a house. I have a friend who talks about the tax deduction but unless you buy a really expensive house, he's not getting much more than the standard deduction. Also, he's not really calculating all the additional costs of home ownership (property taxes, increased utilities, shoveling, gutters, lawn care, buying new air conditioner). |
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Yes, I think in your situation with the place in life you are at now, it's going to be really tough. I have friends who bought back after the crash with FHA with little to no down that were just lucky that they were in the market to buy when they did. Their same offer today wouldn't even be considered if there were other offers on the table.
I think you either be content with renting for now until your income can go up or, honestly, think about moving from this area. It is not worth depriving yourself for years to save for a down payment. We all need to wake up in this area and realize how silly all of this is. We work so hard just to meet the minimum financial obligations such as housing and daycare. Meanwhile, in plenty of other parts of the country, people on any kind of decent salary can easily do both. It's so messed up here. |
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| When will your car be paid off? What about walking/ biking more? Gas bill seems very high. |
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I work full-time but do not need to be able to answer emails at a moment's notice. I can answer them from a laptop at home. I have a talk/text/data plan from TMobile for $30/month. |
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| Agre with the suggestion to consider relocating if nothing is tying you here. We'd be out in a heartbeat if we didn't have family nearby. |
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Money can be earned without college education. It's insane to spend 200k on college education that kids will need decades to save again. In any case, there is plenty of cheap decent college education around the world, no need whatsoever to pay US prices. |
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I have a Smart phone through Virgin Mobile. I pay $35/month for 300 minutes talk time and unlimited text/data. You can get the same plan for $45/month with 1200 minutes or $55/month for unlimited. Even if you pay for 2 phones at unlimited talk, that's still $110 which is $150 less than what you pay. |
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T-Mobile family plan (unlmited everythgin, including data) is $50/month for the first person, $30 for the second = $80/month + taxes/fees for 2 people (so I guess about $90-100 total). That doesnt' include the cost for the phone, but youcan bring your current phone or get one from them. |
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I use my iPad mini. $20 a month for 1G LTE. |
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NP here. I agree with this. I would have been happy to leave this area if my family weren't here, but it is really important to me that my kid (and her possible future sibling) grow up with grandparents nearby (I didn't). It *is* very hard to save the huge amount of money needed to buy a house, or even a townhouse, in this area. It took us six years to save up a 20% DP, plus closing costs and cash reserves, for our $620K house. This was only possible through relative austerity: --We postponed having kids until now (expecting our first soon, in our mid/late 30s). --We have never gone on a really big vacation together. --We did eat out, but rarely at pricey restaurants. --We have never had cable, almost never go to movies or performances, and never ever go to bars. --My husband drives an elderly hand-me-down car. Mine is newer but also paid off. --I work at home so do not have commuting costs. --We bought almost nothing for the homes we lived in before this one, instead using inexpensive furniture, etc., from our single days. --We contributed very, very little to retirement in the last few years (stupid, maybe, but necessary to meet the goal of buying a house). Ways in which we were fortunate: --Neither of us have student loans. --We did not have any super-expensive crises during those six years. But: --We lost $30K on the sale of the condo my husband bought before the financial crisis. It lost value every year we were there, but for various reasons we could not sell before we did. We had no direct family help (by "direct" I mean loans or gifts to help with the down payment; it was a big help that my parents paid for my undergrad, so no student loans). We obviously had no equity from a prior sale. Our income is very average for the area. It was just a combination of being really boring and cheap and being somewhat lucky. If after cutting what expenses you can and taking a hard look at your likely financial future, you really don't think you'll be able to buy here, I'd suggest thinking about relocating if that's something you think you can do. |
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PP I rented for 15 years before I could afford to buy. I don't think renting is "evil" I'm just saying that of all the investments that one can make, IMO, purchasing a home is so important for a number if reasons... 1) freezes the monthly amt you pay for life of loan or refinance 2) tax deduction 3) builds equity you can use for larger and larger down payments for future homes (until you are free and clear and maybe have money left over), and 4) future retirement income (rent, sell, reverse mortgage). I hated renting so I sacrificed for 15 years so I could come up with the 10-20% down (didn't qualify for FHA). I'm just saying, I've been where you are and I hope you can save your down payment for that first financial freedom milestone. My suggestion that it is more important that college will prob be unpopular. But college tuition is a big chunk of a first home. Then, going back to night school while you work and pay your way through college more cheaply while you live in your home is becomes another alternative to managing college prices. Good luck OP it does suck. I thought I'd be 40 before I could reach that first challenge with savings, but it's all much more smooth sailing after that. |