Dear Obnoxious Stepdaughters...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What I mean about being emotionally independent is they should not expect anything from us/ particularly me.

Of course they can and should expect something from their father!!! Are you completely insane? You do NOT get to dictate the relationship they have with their father. You can remove yourself, and you clearly have, but you have absolutely no right to declare their father off limits to them emotionally or in any other way.

It's clear you don't think of your grandchild as your grandchild, either. You sound bankrupt.

[Anonymous]

Alright I'm calling troll. She ignored the questions about what emotional independence meant and every follow up response has been worse than the one before it.

[Anonymous]

OP is my first stepmother. So glad my dad insisted on a prenup and divorced her ass less than two years after marrying. Sorry to see her here and married to some other man with kids and grandkids. She will never get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Alright I'm calling troll. She ignored the questions about what emotional independence meant and every follow up response has been worse than the one before it.

I think you might be right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are all adults. I have no responsibility to you. I resent having to spend time with you. When your father married me, I became first in his life. Your father's assets and mine are now ours. You won't ever get a dime. Rant Off.

I don't think you can take their inheritance. ...why would you want to?

If the dad passes it to evil step mother of course she can take it. You sound like a horrible person OP. I feel sorry for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are all adults. I have no responsibility to you. I resent having to spend time with you. When your father married me, I became first in his life. Your father's assets and mine are now ours. You won't ever get a dime. Rant Off.

I SO hope you die first!

[Anonymous]

This is why I frequently lecture my DH about the kind if woman he is allowed to marry if anything ever happened to me. Luckily he himself has a wonderful stepmom, so he knows what to look for.

[Anonymous]

You can be replaced OP. In fact, you are a replacement. The kids can't. It would behoove you to remember that.

[Anonymous]

Uh, it's a troll people. So obvious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is my first stepmother. So glad my dad insisted on a prenup and divorced her ass less than two years after marrying. Sorry to see her here and married to some other man with kids and grandkids. She will never get it.

Did your father ever apologize?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are all adults. I have no responsibility to you. I resent having to spend time with you. When your father married me, I became first in his life. Your father's assets and mine are now ours. You won't ever get a dime. Rant Off.

Just wait until he steps out on you, just like he did with dear old mom.

[Anonymous]

OP-- is this rant over the bibs? That's all you have? What else is going on?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are all adults. I have no responsibility to you. I resent having to spend time with you. When your father married me, I became first in his life. Your father's assets and mine are now ours. You won't ever get a dime. Rant Off.

Just wait until he steps out on you, just like he did with dear old mom.

Nah. Because this is a total troll, she'll come back on to say dear old mom is deceased.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is my first stepmother. So glad my dad insisted on a prenup and divorced her ass less than two years after marrying. Sorry to see her here and married to some other man with kids and grandkids. She will never get it.

Did your father ever apologize?

To me and my sisters? No. We didn't need an apology because we saw she put him through hell. He's remarried again to a woman who has adult kids the same age as we are and they are very happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is my first stepmother. So glad my dad insisted on a prenup and divorced her ass less than two years after marrying. Sorry to see her here and married to some other man with kids and grandkids. She will never get it.

Did your father ever apologize?

To me and my sisters? No. We didn't need an apology because we saw she put him through hell. He's remarried again to a woman who has adult kids the same age as we are and they are very happy.

That's great. I have a stepmom like OP but they've been together for a long time so I don't think there is much hope.