DH works 6 days a week, generally 13 hour days. Im a lawyer - we have absolutely no extra time to cut the grass. Plus, we have no shed in which to put a lawnmower. |
Me: $5600 (net/month) DH: $2400 (net/month) |
Diapers, paper towels, toilet paper, and laundry detergent. It's much cheaper to buy it there than at Giant. I admit we also buy $24 in K cups there too (we get 50). |
Where can I score some good coupons? |
| How much credit card debt are you carrying? If you didn't spend money on the shopping, ATM, and grass categories for a few months, could you get rid of your credit card debt and free up that money for your monthly expenses? |
| Sell your stuff in storage. You must not really need it, or it wouldn't be in storage. Switch cell phone plans. Cut the gym. Stop buying stuff at 7-11--it's always expensive and seldom healthy. Monitor your CVS purchases carefully. Keep a list of what you're running low on and go to Target once in a while. |
Wait: you spend $2000 a month on childcare but DH is only making 2400 a month? Isn't that a net loss with taxes? |
Yes, it is. But in 2-3 years, his salary will be 2-3x what it is now (and it's not a sales job), so I figure we are investing in our future and just have to bear it. |
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I say this nicely OP, but it doesn't really sound like you want to cut any expenses. If you want to continue struggling for 2-3 years, that is your choice. But it seems foolish to plan on what his salary SHOULD be then. He could get injured, he could get sick, or it simply might not happen.
I feel like this is the same as someone posting wanting to lose weight. But then they say "well I like my bacon and eggs in teh morning. I can't give those up!" "NO no, my McDonalds for lunch destresses me from work and I"m so busy at work I have to do fast food" Get my point? |
Have bolded what I would cut down/ cut out. Honestly, this whole thread is a little confusing to me given your responses. |
How is that guaranteed? What kind of job is this? |
| what's on the credit cards if not groceries/gas/shopping/etc? |
What is in the storage unit? |
Why are you counting childcare against her DH's earnings only? |
About $5K of large car repair and vet bills - the car and cat both almost died at the same time. And our rate with capital one is sooooo high - like 25%. I need to try to transfer the balances so that the $300/mo I pay goes to more principal to pay it off. |