Anonymous wrote:OP- I think it is great you are seeking the advice/ideas of others and are a father who is concerned about his dd's clothing choices. I think your situation is different than many who are responding and understand that if your DD's mom is okay with the clothes and buying them for her it's difficult for you.
I think I might talk to her about why she likes the shirt/slogan/look and be interested in her response. You could also try to give another point of view and say, "some people might think.. " , or "oh, I didn't think of it that way, when I first saw it I thought... and it surprised me to see you wearing it b/c you don't seem like that".
In your case, communication, understanding and respecting opinions will likely get you further than making strict rules.
Stepmom here - this is excellent advice. Good Luck OP!!!
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