Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
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Anonymous
| OP, are you wearing a pair of damp panties right now? |
Anonymous
| PP, you already know the answer. |
Anonymous
| LOLOL!!!! |
Anonymous
| Bullshit. I don't care if I'm having hot monkey sex in the linen closet, snooping is beyond the pale. Divorce material as far as I'm concerned. |
Anonymous
| The liberal marriage on display. The break down of family in America is in full effect. OP full steam ahead. Personally since you deserve privacy I think you should have sex with this guy and if your husband finds out berate him for invading your privacy. |
Anonymous
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You're an idiot, 15:40.
There is nothing in this thread that references the liberal marriage or the breakdown of the family. The only breakdown here is between an husband who doesn't respect his wife and a wife who, shockingly, expects her email to be private. I bet you expect your email to be private, too, right? |
Anonymous
| I wonder if the OP is really attractive, sexy, and hot, or, overweight, repulsive, and gross.... |
Anonymous
If that's your threshhold for divorce, and if that's the value you place on privacy, then divorce. I think most people feel otherwise. It sounds like you place your husband's feelings way, way, below your privacy. |
Anonymous
| OP, I understand why you are upset. I have my phone and my own email. DH has his. Our email accounts are on a shared computer. They are not password protected. I have never looked at his account and I am sure he's never looked at mine. He could, but he has no reason to. We don't open each other's mail that comes to the house, either. I think that if we started password protecting things it would make us wonder why we felt the need to do that. Does that make sense? We've been married for 16 years, FWIW. |
Anonymous
| OP here. Makes total sense. I misused the word "hacked." We know all of each others passwords and PIN codes. He always had the ability to look. The expectation is that he wouldn't. |
Anonymous
Don't let your husband read DCUM. They will all tell him to snoop in your email if he suspects infidelity. They will probably give him tips on how to do it. |
Anonymous
Oh yeah, marital issues are a "liberal" thing. That's why the divorce rate in the South is 40% higher than in the Northeast. http://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/acs-13.pdf |
Anonymous
Then how is it private when he knows the passwords and PIN codes? You already said that you have to constantly change the passwords because he gets into the emails but now you say he always knows the passwords and has the ability to look? You said before that he was snooping because he thought you would have an affair because of your attraction to another man and then you went on in another post and said that he was snooping for a birthday present and for fun. OP, stop faking on this fake post. |
Anonymous
| Despite his previous snooping, I hadn't changed passwords. I didn't want to have to do that, because I expect him to respect the boundary between me, you and us without the equivalent of parental controls for marriage. This is why I got so upset. I don't want to feel the need to keep logins secret. |
Anonymous
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Your marriage will not last. You've got distrust, snooping, anger, indignation, contempt and god knows what else.
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