Question for the women who aren't gettin' busy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

Have either of you used it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Yes, "uneasy" is a good word. And something else always "taking priority." I know we should talk about this but we avoid it.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

Have either of you used it?

I don't know if he has and I prefer not to know but yes, I have used it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Yes, "uneasy" is a good word. And something else always "taking priority." I know we should talk about this but we avoid it.

Isn't it strange how awkward sex can become with the person you know best and love the most.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

How long have you two been married? Do you kids?


Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

Have either of you used it?

I don't know if he has and I prefer not to know but yes, I have used it.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

How long have you been married? Do you have kids?


Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

Have either of you used it?

I don't know if he has and I prefer not to know but yes, I have used it.

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Anonymous wrote:it seems like the more my DH and I got to know each other, and got used to each other, the more uneasy we were about sex. It's odd. We can't seem to really let go. we both initiate after a few drinks, occasionally otherwise. It's definitely a project to work on, but there is always something else taking priority.

Loving you for sharing this - I feel the same way, like things have gotten awkward in .hat area, like I feel like a cheese ball and cant get into it, much less initiate or receive the come on. I masturbate a lot, watch porn sometimes, fantasize about other men

Same here. My DH is so incredibly handsome and wonderful but it feels almost like I'm trying to have sex with a sibling. It's just all the day to day crap that ruins it. I don't have the hots for him anymore and I feel so bad about it.

But how would you feel if he had an affair or asked to have a "hall pass"?

How long have you been married? Do you have kids?


Funny you should ask. He has a "hall pass" and so do I.

Have either of you used it?

I don't know if he has and I prefer not to know but yes, I have used it.

How long have you been married? Do you have kids?

[Anonymous]

Married 20 years. Yes, we have kids but they aren't affected by it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 20 years. Yes, we have kids but they aren't affected by it.

Were you and your DH together in high school and/or college?

Do you practice a religion? If so.. Which one?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Married 20 years. Yes, we have kids but they aren't affected by it.

Were you and your DH together in high school and/or college?

Do you practice a religion? If so.. Which one?

This isn't an "ask me anything" thread. But yes and why do you want to know about religion? There are religions which do not damn you to hell for this and he practices one of them. I do not.