SAHM pregnant with twins - DH wants a divorce....what to do?

[Anonymous]

I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Disgusting!!!!!! These babies were 20 weeks, healthy and were intentially conceived.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Disgusting!!!!!! These babies were 20 weeks, healthy and were intentially conceived.

Well I understand where the poster who would abort is coming from. Three young children, low income and no supportive husband....absolute exhaustion year after year....and may be bad for the OP's (mental) health and her son's well-being.
My friend got an abortion recently and I actually wouldn't have done so if I were in her shoes. She has a two year old son but is unhappy in her marriage. However, the husband has a good job and is not planning to leave her, so she may regret the decision.

Very hard situation!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Disgusting!!!!!! These babies were 20 weeks, healthy and were intentially conceived.

Well I understand where the poster who would abort is coming from. Three young children, low income and no supportive husband....absolute exhaustion year after year....and may be bad for the OP's (mental) health and her son's well-being.
My friend got an abortion recently and I actually wouldn't have done so if I were in her shoes. She has a two year old son but is unhappy in her marriage. However, the husband has a good job and is not planning to leave her, so she may regret the decision.
Very hard situation!

This is sick beyond belief....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Disgusting!!!!!! These babies were 20 weeks, healthy and were intentially conceived.

Well I understand where the poster who would abort is coming from. Three young children, low income and no supportive husband....absolute exhaustion year after year....and may be bad for the OP's (mental) health and her son's well-being.
My friend got an abortion recently and I actually wouldn't have done so if I were in her shoes. She has a two year old son but is unhappy in her marriage. However, the husband has a good job and is not planning to leave her, so she may regret the decision.
Very hard situation!

This is sick beyond belief....

No, it's not (?). I didn't agree with her but it's not "sick beyong belief". She is unhappy in the marriage and trying to figure out if she's leaving the marriage so she didn't want to bring another child into a bad situation. Her husband has a substance abuse issue (yes, he still manages to have a good job - it's an every evening thing).

[Anonymous]

OMG that's awful. Use his money to see a LAWYER pronto. You should not have to live like this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Errr... Considering that her original post was from 6 months ago, her one to two month old twins probably wouldn't appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

What is the point in posting on this thread. The babies would have been born already. Nobody is actually helping the poster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am probably in the minority here, but I would have the abortion and start over without him.

Disgusting!!!!!! These babies were 20 weeks, healthy and were intentially conceived.

Well I understand where the poster who would abort is coming from. Three young children, low income and no supportive husband....absolute exhaustion year after year....and may be bad for the OP's (mental) health and her son's well-being.
My friend got an abortion recently and I actually wouldn't have done so if I were in her shoes. She has a two year old son but is unhappy in her marriage. However, the husband has a good job and is not planning to leave her, so she may regret the decision.
Very hard situation!

This is sick beyond belief....

No, it's not (?). I didn't agree with her but it's not "sick beyong belief". She is unhappy in the marriage and trying to figure out if she's leaving the marriage so she didn't want to bring another child into a bad situation. Her husband has a substance abuse issue (yes, he still manages to have a good job - it's an every evening thing).

Sorry, I still disagree with you. So she says she has a bad marriage, but still managed to get pregnant. And then aborts her child -- his child -- her two year old's sibling -- so she can sort out her feelings???? Disgusting. Sick.