Only cousin not invited to wedding
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Anonymous
| Can you have someone confirm you’re actually not invited? Maybe your parent can check with the groom’s parent? When I got married I got a cousin’s invitation returned to me right before the wedding because the forwarding order on his address had expired. It had apparently spent weeks going through the mail system before I got it back. I was mortified!! I wish his mom had checked with me or my dad when everyone else in the family got their invitations except for him. |
Anonymous
How do you know this? Are they "invitations-are-summons" people? |
Anonymous
To me that's different- there have been weddings in my large family where cousins did something similar, but it was like they invited say, 5 out of 15 cousins, not all but one like OP is describing. That's just rude. |
Anonymous
| Just tell your mom you were not invited. Let her check on if to be sure. It’s crazy to exclude one cousin, which makes me think that there is a possibility there was some sort of mistake. Either way, it’s sorta weird to not let your mother know. |
Anonymous
Disagree. If OP cannot go anyway, what is the point? It would be different if it were a ways out and she wanted to attend. |
Anonymous
| ^^ and I agree a mistake is likely, but you should have asked months ago! |