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As an adult I can't no show my job and then 6 days later be like, oh yeah I forgot to tell you I was sick that day so I can't be in trouble for not being here. I get that these are kids but one of the more important parts of high school is teaching these kids actual life skills that will serve them beyond high school. |
It’s actually pretty easy to identify. Either we mark them as unexcused absent or the system already shows the absence as “excused.” If the absence isn’t planned, parents can submit a note if the child was really sick or another legitimate reason identified by the student handbook to the attendance office. The teachers can then see it’s excused, and voila, the kid can make up the work. This was actually policy and it DID work for many years until we got too soft with COVID. I bet this PP is just a 17 year old who’s pissed they can’t skip to get McDonalds anymore. |
You are emailing the wrong person. Counseling doesn’t handle attendance. You need to contact the attendance secretary. |
Good point. Most parents are too lazy to call when their kid is sick but magically expect that school will know |
This night make sense if you were doing something that penalized the parents themselves, but it doesn't really seem fair for some kids to get worse grades than others based on whether or not their parent prioritizes (or even understands the importance of) calling in an excused absence. |
Sounds like that it might teach a child to finally self advocate. If mom doesn't care enough to do the absolute bare minimum then maybe the kid has to develop higher priorities than the parent. |
You did not address the staff errors. I’m not a kid and I have firsthand experience with subs not knowing how to take attendance and marking my kid absent, or teachers making a mistake. I know it was a mistake because when I emailed teachers to inquire about the absences they would apologize and correct it. |
| I don’t understand why parents of high school kids don’t notify the school when their kids are sick. This is the time it matters. My kids are grown but I did. I didn’t want their teachers to think they were skipping. There is actually an attendance secretary that you can just email. |
As a regular sub at high schools, one thing we can do is take attendance. Many kids try to use “I had a sub” when they skip class. I always repeat several times the names of kids marked absent, so there are no mistakes. Now, if a kid says they need to go to the bathroom at the start of class and then are gone for the rest of the period - he/she is marked absent. I let the attendance secretary know the circumstances. |
| Again, as a coach, I tell my players that their attendance being correct is ultimately nobody's responsibility other than their own. I'm out here coaching and leading future men. If they have a sub, they better stand there in the sub's face and watch as they are marked present. Heck, they should do it even if their regular teacher is there. I don't care if it's annoying or delays the start of class. When I run the report at the end of the day and there is an absence, "I had a sub" or "they didn't see me" won't fly. |
Are you arguing with me about my lived experience? I literally said I emailed to inquire and a few times, it turned out the sub messed. And a couple times, it was teacher error. I’m not just going off of what my kid said. I followed up with the school. |
Like PP, you are missing the point. If it shows as unexcused in Synergy, that is what we have to go by. However, it sounds like that teacher will allow students to send them documentation that it should have been excused. So, really she is 'going against' the attendance/grading policy by allowing this. Do you want them not to do this? Listen, if you are a parent posting on this board, this is not going to impact you or your child. |
+1 this is like penalizing kindergartners for tardiness when they are obviously not driving themselves or walking alone to school. |
+1 It’s obvious to me that know-it-all first year teacher does not have a kid and has not experienced the errors that periodically occur on the other end of this. |
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No. Two kids at two different high schools. I never encountered this. My kids went to class, and I called the school when they were ill.
I am sure when angry parents thinks their little snowflake is marked absent, it has to be the school’s fault. Not worth arguing with them. Just mark the student present, even though skipping hurts the kids in the long run. |