| Summer swim right around the corner. Get ready for all of the crazy 10 and under parents who think their kid is going to the Olympics because they won 50 free at an A meet once. |
| That's not isolated to summer swim. It's endemic to NOVA. Until you see the how talented people are all over the country, ignorance is bliss. |
This is supposed to be for fun. If it’s just for fun, why do any work at all? It’s also supposed to be rewarding. It’s supposed to advance aquatic skills. Nothing wrong with the fast 8&U swimming with the 9-10s. Half of them are just rising 3rd graders with summer birthdays swimming with their spring/winter/ fall birthday classmates. |
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“This is supposed to be for fun. If it’s just for fun, why do any work at all? It’s also supposed to be rewarding. It’s supposed to advance aquatic skills.
Nothing wrong with the fast 8&U swimming with the 9-10s. Half of them are just rising 3rd graders with summer birthdays swimming with their spring/winter/ fall birthday classmates.” +1 It’s usually poor sports who think their child’s self esteem and world will collapse if a peer or two swims up, so they say snarky things like, “their parents must assume they are going to the Olympics”. No. They don’t. They just want their child to be able to move in the water, because it’s really not a fun experience to be stuck the whole practice. It isn’t that big of a deal and only ruins the experience for you and your child if you choose to let it. |
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Not by age (though it tends to sort it out that way for the most part.)
Beginner (30m practice) Intermediate (45m practice) Advanced (75m practice) Coaches are good about being flexible (within reason - a new swimmer isn't going to be successful in advanced practice) And for relay prep, typically for the graduated relay all the kids are in the advanced (maybe the youngest is in intermediate sometimes and they stay for a bit.) For 8y and under relay those kids are typically all in the same practice. |
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Until schools are out for the summer:
8 and under, 30 min 9-12, 35 min 13+, 35 min. After school is out: 12 and under, 60 min 13+, 60 min |
| The truth is the fastest kids are largely not swimming summer league practices, so this really is a non-issue. My child is one of these our team slated as needing to workout with the 13+ swimmers, but she’ll be at club practice during that time anyway. (Yes, there are the occasional swimmers who do not practice with their club team in summer.) |
Not the PP, but my impression is the chorus of complaints and/or eye rolls are from 12U parents. By 13, the kids have already sorted themselves out. |
This was our experience as well. We had only two groups for the regular team - 10&u, 11+. Advanced 10s would sometimes be given the option to go with older kids, I personally kept my kids with their peers. They were advanced swimmers who didn't go to every summer team practice as it was, so I wanted them with their age group. |
Mine is 11, and her whole relay is slated to practice with the 13+, but none of them are really going to be there because of club practice. So people could make a thing of it (why, I don’t know), but it’s ultimately a non-issue. I think this kind of thing is probably more glaring, leaving 12U parents to argue in their fishbowl, on smaller teams with fewer club swimmers. |
The issue that can present on teams who have a lot of club swimmers is that not all club swimmers are the most advanced swimmers. A healthy portion of swimmers in NVSL and MCSL also swim various levels of club, but not all are advanced or even particularly fast. (That’s why the sport is great — there is a place for everyone.) So the “club swimmers demarcation line” on these teams doesn’t work, and then parents get mad that some club swimmers are moved up, while others have to swim in their age group. But if you zoom in enough, like PPs have said, the advanced club swimmers (even 12Us) are not going to summer swim team practice (some exceptions apply, ie, club teams that do not require LC enrollment). And the advanced swimmers get hurt in practice groups with kids far slower and less technical. It’s a safety issue to put 10 kids in a lane and a club swimmer who has to basically stop and walk because they get kicked otherwise. |
| Like so many others, we group by age - 8 & under, 9-12, 13-18. We’ve always had a handful of kids who go to a different practice (siblings, 13 year olds who are still competing as a 12 because of summer birthdays, etc) but it’s not a lot of kids. I think some coaches are better than others at having different lanes to meet different needs. A good coach might have a more advanced lane or two, a middle group, and a lane that needs extra help. |
| My guess is that some 12U parents feel slighted by their kid (not moving up/in a lane with a kid that moved up, or whatever scenario). I'm willing to bet 99% of your time that your kid doesn't share their feeling of getting shafted. |
+1. I’ve got a club swimmer with a June birthday. He wasn’t practicing with the 9-10s last year when he had just turned 11 and swimming in the 9-10 age group. He was already faster than all but one or two 11-12 swimmers. |
As the OP of last year's "summer swim brings out the crazy" thread, I can't wait. |