Bro, there is ONE near me, and by "near me" I mean a 2+ hour drive away. If you're going to call this a mandatory step, it has to be accessible to people. I'm not putting a crazy dog in a car for two hours to spend several hundred dollars to ask a stranger why it bites at my kids. |
Walk us through it. I used https://avsab.org/directory/ and https://www.dacvb.org/search/custom.asp and couldn't find anyone near enough to me to be a viable option. |
The largest behaviorist practice in the DMV dos virtual visits. But also an hour drive to the behaviorist to decide whether to put your dog down is fine. Kennel them in the car. |
Virtual consult… |
scam alert!!! Some vet who has never seen or interacted with your animal is going to give you meaningful advice via zoom? What a cashgrab!! |
This all sounds like it could be handled by a vet visit to me. And yes, obviously a dog who was previously calm suddenly being aggressive would make anyone with half a brain consider a pain component. You act like you’re providing some earth shattering revelations here. You’re not. No one needs a board certified behavioral vet for anything you’ve described here. Stop trying to exaggerate and catastrophize everything |
Go to a regular vet. |
| Bit of a tangent - I dropped my middle school kid at a new friend’s house so the mom could take the kids to a movie. The mom had to hold her dog back from attacking us. It was a snarling crazy dog - trying to protect the family from us. We are dog people, but this was nuts. Who keeps a dog like that with children? This is a dog I would euthanize. I can’t let my kid hang out at their house. She might actually get bitten. |
It's actually a job a lot of dogs were breed for - protect their family, doesn't make the dog crazy. That dog owners on the other hand are questionable, they should just keep the dog away from the entrance if they expect visitors. I have dog like that - it's trying to protect the door, barking, snarling and lunging. I just crate him when people coming over (and he just lay down there quietly). Then let him out when people are inside already, and he perfectly fine around them. But I supervise him, and crate immediately if he becomes overwhelmed/scared. I honestly don't see a need to euthanize. |
I appreciate the explanation. Sounds like you handle your dog well. I have a little dog who is quiet except for watchdog type barking when new people come in the house. Although, she really just wants attention and would let new people pet her if they were interested. She would have to be completely senile to bite someone. So, seeing a dog who would bite me given the chance was way out outside my expectations. |
| Bites. |
It's an option for people who don't have access due to distance. You can/should provide the behaviorist and videos. Obviously I'd agree in-person is better. But no, these aren't scams. |
What have I catastrophized? Nothing. I said I wouldn't put my dog down for behavioral reasons without consulting a behaviorist. And that seeing a behaviorist before putting your dog down isn't all that hard. |
You do you. But don’t try to tell people they need to go to a ‘behaviorist’ to make a decision. A vet visit is fine. |
This. And if you've gone to a vet and tried what your resources will allow you to try, you should be able to put the dog down. It's a dog, not a death sentence to your sanity and/or financial health. Just don't turn right around and get a new one without analyzing what you need to improve. |