| NYTines quotes a Harvard researcher who provided a very convincing critique of this paper. Apparently, it combines two kinds of studies - the ones that tracked child prodigies and the ones that looked at the backgrounds of the adults defined as successful. There is no split of the results of the two types, and the following might be happening: most child prodigies eventually flame out, but most super successful adults were recognized as gifted children, late bloomers are a minority. Also, some of the underlying studies on adults measured success based on income, meaning that a Wall Street quant would be considered more successful than an academic who won the Fields medal. |
They call this jack of all trades, master of nothing. It’s not a bad way to be. You get to learn all these activities and learning new things can be fun. You just won’t be a starter or team leader, you’ll always be in the middle somewhere. Advantage in adulthood is you’ll pick things up faster than others who played it safe and wouldn’t try new things once pat elementary school. |
| Where is her boyfriend |
I was going to say my son does gymnastics, it feels impossible not to specialize because of practice requirements. You simply can't get the skills or strength without lots of practice. |
It’s not impossible. You are buying into the adult-led system that pushes it. There may be (rare) cases where a 9 year old actually chooses this but it is mostly the adults. |
It will be fine. Better than fine because true creativity usage really something Ai can easily replicate. All his experiences will coalesce into something uniquely him. I say this as a lawyer and PhD documentary filmmaker who started an Emmy-winning and Oscar‐nominated production company who uses all of my random interests professionally as an adult. |
AI CAN'T easily replicate i mean! |
True but any sport where going through puberty is a disadvantage is not a sport I encouraged my kids to participate in. |
| Just like all the academic superstars in high school are going to grow up to have boring jobs and ordinary lives. It’s fine. |
Very true |
+1 |
By impossible I mean there is no option to casually do gymnastics and compete. Gymnastics classes are below his current skill set. I also dont know how you safety learn to fly through the air or do a lot of the skills with minimal practice. Anyway gymnastics is the only thing my kid has ever wanted to do. He used to do baseball and swim and gymnastics but asked to stop the other stuff. But really now with the level he is at it be hard. We get gymnastics scheduled a year out (to be honest i basically know what his pravtice schedule will be for the next 7 years because its just set) but if we sign up for another sport I get a few days notice re practice or games. And if its on a day he has gymnastics we can't do it. It be amazing if other sports could provide schedules b4 sign up I wish other sports had more set schedules. |
Wait,what? Harvard’s admission rate is 4x that of D1 sports, and Harvard admits nepo-babies and donor’s kids. |
Ummm if you need your kid’s schedule to be set SEVEN YEARS in advance, you may want to stop to think …. |
LOL I didnt say I needed to, just that the schedule for levels is set and doesnt ever change. But it would be nice to have a schedule before we signed up for something. For example if we could sign up for Tuesday night baseball or whatever |