| ^ about that* |
It’s a girl name? I thought it was for a boy. Not particularly pretty for a girl. |
Yes, I don't think it's used for boys at all. According to my friend with the name, it was the name of one of Muhammad's daughters and his granddaughter. (I asked because I had never heard it before.) |
Blame the parents who choose to name their child Dana and pronounce it that way. I know Danas of both pronunciation, all within the U.S. |
| She will be viewed as a perpetual foreigner/immigrant if you name her Zainab. I say this as someone who was born in the US with an East African name. |
| Zay-nub |
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If I met her, I'd ask so I don’t pronounce it wrong
Easy (I've met too many Megan's with different pronunciations, so I don't assume with most names) |
Sorry to burst your bubble, but having a name like Jennifer doesn't change that fact. Some people will still assume. Embrace who you are anyway. - 3nd gen American who is still thought to be foreigner/immigrant because of what i look like |
Absolutely not. But you can deal with that. |
I think you're overestimating the average person's intelligence. I think that it has more to do with people simply not knowing how to pronounce/read a large number of common names and just guessing rather than not knowing which pronunciation is preferred. |
+1 I'm the South Asian PP above. A lot of ppl will never view me or my kids as American anyway. I'm not going to pretend to be a white person on paper. I like my heritage. |
Yes but being asked if you need a translator (based solely on your "foreign" name) before you have even opened your mouth to speak is definitely somewhat insulting. I probably wouldn't have had that experience if my name was Jennifer (to use your example). Nobody wants to be seen as a perpetual foreigner when they're 100% American. |
| I worked with someone who had that name in my 20s—pre-“woke” culture—and no one in a very white Anglo company had an issue pronouncing her name. |
| I knew a Zainab growing up (although she spelled it differently) and it’s one of my favorite names! |
Agree— first time I looked at it I pronounced it as an i and then I wondered if it should be an a |