Maybe if they are suffering from dementia and can't remember what holiday it is, but otherwise I think you're safe. |
Pp here, that's a big of an exaggeration but my MIL actually acknowledged she'd never used her wedding China and I convinced her to take it out last Christmas and use it (she was worriedit would be damaged, I carefully hand washed everything). She died unexpectedly last year and had it not been for that Christmas dinner she never would have used it. |
| Use it. I have a set of China we have never used once. |
So many people have lovely things and only use them in "special" occasions or fire "company.,". OP who is more special than your family. My mother used her fine china and silverware every Sunday for dinner. |
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I wouldn’t use it for Thanksgiving but I wouldn’t judge you if you were kind enough to host me at your house.
I would use it for every meal in Dec though through January 6th. |
That is so wrong. |
+1 |
Use Easter china… |
| People already have their Christmas trees up in my neighborhood. Use the dishes! |
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Some of your guests may find it tacky (I wouldn’t‼️)
So to err on the side of caution - - I wouldn’t use it. |
| Do whatever gives you joy. Don't worry about others' opinions. |
| I absolutely say go for it. I have eight place settings of my “regular fancy” china, but a full doorbuster suite of 18 settings and tons of accessories of my mom’s holiday china. So if my Thanskgiving is larger than 8 people, I take inspiration from “Planes, Trains and Automobiles” and make my house and table look like Christmas at Thanksgiving dinner. No one has ever complained. |
| This is why, for Jews the biggest holiday of the year is Saturday. Life's is short; celebrate it! |
Is it snowing in November by you? |
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Thanksgiving?
That's not quite almost Christmastime! |