| A lot of them are heading south to the SEC these days. Amazing college experience and amazing outcomes. |
+ Northwestern and JHU, they are same difficulty. All long shot schools. |
there's some good advice here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/1nrw37w/admission_officers_and_college_admits_of_reddit/ |
If you don't readily have it saved/can easily cash flow it, then yes no school is worth the $90K+. But if you have saved (and most higher income families easily could have), then it's nice to have those options |
This is a mentality I do not understand at all. We could pay $400k but wouldn’t because the ROI is not there. Part of our job as parents is to teach our kids to make good financial decisions. Spending $400k to get the same outcome as going somewhere free seems hard to justify. |
| At our school, these types of stats kids end up at Dartmouth, Brown, Cornell, Penn, UChicago, Hopkins or our local state flagship. |
We could easily cash flow it and also could pay from savings and still don't see it as a good value. I used to work in grad school admissions and the private school undergrads didn't fare any better than the state flagship kids with similar stats. |
Prestige matters in the short term as well in the long term (gulp!) Don’t shortchange your dear child as the investment would yield -typically- lot more than s&p returns (both monetarily as well as socially) |
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Those are actually pretty good ECs especially considering those academic stats.
Harvard Yale Princeton Stanford are just ridiculous for anyone without some hook but I think any of the other top schools you’d have a realistic shot. Pick the favorite and ED, then expect to submit widely as reaches with some targets that they’d feel comfortable with. This really is a strong application — don’t let people get you down. Being a 4 year varsity athlete while getting those grades/scores in those classes is not all that common actually. |
Nope. I don't want my child accidentally marrying someone with this mentality. |
It’s tough to say no to your kid who wants to go to a $400k school when you went a similar (albeit cheaper at the time) school 25 years ago. It’s even harder to say no when you remember your own (life changing) experience and recall how different (not as life changing) it was for your old HS friends who stayed home and went to their local flagship. It’s not all about a financial ROI, or at the very least there should be a few more layers to your ROI calc than a first year starting salary. |
T20-30 privates or top publics are well within reach. The bolded makes the difference between unhooked kids with top stats getting in at T10 and those "settling" for T20-30. |
This. My ivy changed mine and wife's life trajectory. We wanted and are happy to pay for similar. |
Please explain to me how your life is better than someone your age who went to UVA. I’m genuinely curious. |
Most local oh kids have lots of kids with this profile due to grade inflation. |