Haha! So true! My DC goes to a school with a lot of school spirit. I've never seen some many people wearing their colors while in that town. The alumni network is very active and willing to help. We were on vacation out of the country this summer and when DH was wearing something that identified the school, he would always hear someone comment with a school-specific phrase. It's the opposite of where I went to college and I think it's pretty cool. |
| Just dropped off DC at an Ivy. Everyone goes around quietly, students don't make eye contact. Something tells me, not much of school spirit there. I don't know it's the school problem or the generation problem. |
Which one? |
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I went to the University of Florida in the 1980s.
Massive school spirit and this is way before our football team was good. 80 percent of the student body wore some sort of Gator apparel constantly. The intensity was incredible and it felt great to be a part of it. Everyone identified as a Gator and it just felt so inclusive. The classes were hard work, but the atmosphere made it one of the best periods of my life. |
That's true. It's because NYC is a grind. |
UPenn. |
Yep. My kid turned down Columbia this year for a state school because it just seemed like a grind. No school spirit. And it doesn't rate very high on alumni network or loyalty. |
| Having a sense of community is more fulfilling than being a striver. |
My kid noticed at Swarthmote that kids were walking to and from class alone. Not in relaxed groups of happy friends. |
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Because where you spend the end of your childhood should not hinge on ROI.
YOLO. |
Same and I went there in the 2000s. School pride was off the charts. We won a lot of basketball and football championships while I was there. Best 4 years! Even in DC I have someone say “go gators” anytime I wear something that has a gator on it. |
True, and beautifully said. |
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| Being a joiner is easier than living your own life with meaning. |
You suggest that those options are mutually exclusive. If you join the right group, they are not. And groups can accomplish much more than individuals. |