Your school sounds unpleasant. |
| OP they are not necessarily poor, or living in a trailer, but their brain is definitely in the freezer. |
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It’s just stupid. I’m a biochem/molecular biologist and my husband is CS/IT. Both of our kids excel equally in humanities/English, arts, languages as they do in science and math. 5s in all subject areas- straight As in all APs no matter the difficulty or subject.
They are leaning into non-STEM areas. I see this the most from parents who were not STEM themselves and utterly surprised their kid can do calc/physics/engineering so they think they are Einstein. The smartest people can do it all. |
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^ agree. They can carry a conversation with anyone on any topic. They are well read/bred.
They aren’t the dolts at functions. |
Agree. We are full pay at the Ivies for my kids. If they were stem we would have just done a state school. To get into an Ivy- you also excelled in AP calc/physics/chem, etc in addition to AP foreign language/histories/eng lang lit. You have to have it all to get in anyways. |
I mean, those people are just projecting their insecurities. The joke’s on them because humanities majors are best positioned to thrive in an AI-disrupted economy. Human creativity is going to command a premium in the workplace. It is already true. |
+1 Parent of a humanities major who took the hardest stem classes in his, just graduated from an ivy and she and all her humanities friends have great jobs or are off to grad/law school, and parent of a stem major at a different ivy who writes extremely well and got humanities as well as stem accolades in hs. |
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I’m wondering if criticizing humanities majors is a more cultural thing. I’m an immigrant, and humanities majors are definitely looked down upon as there aren’t much career prospects in my home country for them as there would be for an engineer or a doctor for instance.
Also, as a high school student in my home country, it’s almost unheard of to go into a humanities major if you’re good at Math/ STEM. It’s awesome to see kids in the US who are good at STEM, deliberately choose humanities majors and thrive. |
My daughter is in NYC with thousands of kids studying dance, acting, musical theatre at places like NYU, Juilliard, Fordham with Alvin Ailey, all the schools at the top ballet companies. That’s just a few of the schools. It’s not that unusual for these kids to study something without knowing what kind on income they might have. |
I think that’s only immigrants from Asian countries. How could everybody be an engineer or doctor? That would be weird. |
| So what are these great jobs the ivy humanities majors are doing? |
Well my DH earns nearly $1 million/yr working in TV & filim so there's that. |
I would include highly educated immigrants from any country. Maybe include business, accounting and finance too. |
I'm an immigrant. Lots of immigrants become lawyers, and major in humanities. But, yes, not as many major in humanities other than to be lawyers because most immigrants who come here don't have family wealth or connections, and they need to get a good paying job after college. That's usually something in STEM, business, or law. |
what did he major in? Does he have a graduate degree? You realize your DH is an outlier, right? Most humanities majors with just an undergrad don't make that much. |