I was a camp swimming instructor and actually had a ridiculous amount of training to do my job. But teaching lessons in a lake is quite challenging- we actual did additional training courses at other camps prior to our camp to learn different instructional techniques. We used to lose so much time during each lesson just to the process of coaxing kids into the water, getting them used to how the bottom felt, getting used to being able to see differently under water, etc. Once you account for all of those factors, there's still the fact that there isn't a wall to hold onto, there's no smooth bottom to stand on, there's wind and currents, etc. A lot of swimming lessons in lakes start from standing in the shallows so that itself is tricky because kids need to learn to transition from a standing position to a prone swimming position. If they're holding on to a dock, many are shocked by the dock looming a bit over them and the lack of a wall to push off of. I had kids who were clearly strong pool swimmers but could barely grasp pushing off the lake bottom from the shallows and getting to a swimming position- they would just keep dropping their feet down and popping their head up. I had swim team kids cry about touching the bottom or touching a dock or the scary dock shadows. Anyway, all that is to say that OP, you need to just be patient with this and be grateful your kids have an introduction to this kind of swimming. It will be a gradual process unless you're practicing in the same kind of environment at home or on other vacations. |
Agree with the posters saying that your kid isn’t getting enough, consistent, year round swim practice. That is what it takes to be a strong swimmer. |
Ugh a lake? I’m an adult and won’t swim freestyle in a lake. The water is dark and deep. |
Can you join a community pool or a YMCA? What worked for my kids was just going to the pool pretty much every day for a few months. |
What is the fail point? Is your kid lacking the swimming ability, the physical conditioning and stamina, the psychological fortitude...
It's hard to help say what might be best next steps since nobody here knows what the whole problem is. Why is your kid failing? |
This. Lake and ocean swimming are much more difficult than swimming in a pool. A lot of people who do triathalons almost drown because of this. My sil had to be dragged out of the ocean by other competitors because the event was poorly managed. |
Where is your kid on the issue? IME kids need to have that internal drive to do this kind of thing--mine were very much motivated by wearing the coveted "black band" that deep water swimmers got. If this isn't herder for it perhaps some one-on-one classes could help her skills and confidence. |
My kid is 6 and my experience is his classmates are all over the place. One girl in his year is nailing her strokes and beating older kids, some are struggling to swim underwater.
I do think doing winter swim lessons inside helps a lot as kids can regress easily. |
How much does she swim outside of camp? Other friends probably have gotten a lot more instruction and swim a lot. I wouldn't send my kid to a camp where they swim in a lake unless they can float on their back and tread water for a couple of minutes. Sounds dangerous otherwise. |
Psychology may be at play here. Where is this lake, is it man made — the middle of the lake implies it is tiny? As a teen I did 1 mile loops in our lake in NE, and it can be unnerving how far you are from shore and how the water is absolutely black and dark. Of course I think sometimes I swam at night — the bravado of the 90s! Pool swimming is much easier to focus on instruction — the floor is easy to reach, the water is warm and comfortable, and you can do small groups or private lessons. Learning to swim in a group setting at a lake sounds like marketing! |
I grew up in Florida and still have a bit of a mental block on lake swimming because of it (I knew a kid who died of naegleria). I ocean swim fine. |
This is part of why i asked about where it was — lake swimming when it’s warm is dangerous, but New England kettle lakes are pretty safe (for now who knows with global warming) That’s crazy, there have only been 164 cases in the US, and you know one ![]() |
I’m a strong swimmer, my kids are good swimmers, and I wouldn’t want any of us to swim in a lake without a life vest on. Way too many unknowns, water temp changes etc. Literally anyone can get a cramp, and they’ll never rescue you in a lake. They may not even find your body. |
I didn't know him that well, but he went to my church in Orlando and they did a big prayer event for him when he was in the hospital. This was back almost 20 years ago now. |