Awful Cape vacation

[Anonymous]

Grew up spending summers on the Cape and still have a family house there. The beach thing makes sense. There is no need to pay to go to different beaches when most are the same or you're sitting in traffic to get to them.

Other than that, I'm assuming you knew what these friends were like, right? Do they normally go eat out and drink and go shopping in every day life and suddenly don't want to on vacation? Probably not. So either you should have known what to expect or you should have declined.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At a friends house on the Cape for a girls weekend.

Now I know these women don’t like to shop and are “frugal”.

This is my first time to the Cape and it’s awful.

I thought we would go to the beach, maybe shop and go out to eat at seafood places.

We’ve gone to the beach but only the ones my friend has a pass too. We walked through a downtown and by stores and when I wanted to go in was told “oh god must you shop?”

I offered to buy a round of drinks at a restaurant and was told “oh no we can eat and drink at my house”

And the house is dank, dirty, looks like a camp.

Awful experience

You need to buy passes to go to the beach? Weird.

You often need a parking pass or you have to pay for parking. Depends on the beach.

[Anonymous]

What would you even buy on Cape Cod, other than oysters?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is weird they wouldn't let you buy drinks for them

+1 or let you go into one store.

I don't get the people dumping on OP (though her tone was a little harsh). Who wants other people to control their behavior to this level while on vacation? I can't imagine a friend getting huffy at me if I wanted to browse in a shop or buy them a drink. That would sour the trip for sure.

OP comes across as rude, I can only imagine what she is like in person.

Op sounds perfectly normal. Her friends are weirdos.

[Anonymous]

OP, I sympathize! Weird that no one would agree to browse or take you up on the drink. I wouldn't enjoy this either.

I would do one of two things: (1) announce you are going to drinks / dinner / shopping / whatever and anyone is welcome to join (and then enjoy it !!) or (2) make up a reason to leave and get a hotel somewhere or go home and enjoy a staycation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is weird they wouldn't let you buy drinks for them

+1 or let you go into one store.

I don't get the people dumping on OP (though her tone was a little harsh). Who wants other people to control their behavior to this level while on vacation? I can't imagine a friend getting huffy at me if I wanted to browse in a shop or buy them a drink. That would sour the trip for sure.

OP comes across as rude, I can only imagine what she is like in person.

Op sounds perfectly normal. Her friends are weirdos.

+1 Don't get the people putting down OP

[Anonymous]

OP, I love Cape Cod. We go out for most dinners, go to whatever beach we want - even if we have to pay -horrors! - $15 a day for a pass. And I like to take one afternoon and shop around in Chatham. Don't usually buy much but it sure is fun to look and buy a little fugdge.
Your friends sound really lame.

Check out Mayflower Beach in Dennis in the evening. It's spectacular!

Some of the people who are on this board are pretty snide.