I like it when my spouse...

[Anonymous]

Spears me like a Zulu warrior.

[Anonymous]

Any thoughtful little acts of service.
Gets up before me (even though he doesn't have to since his work is on his own schedule and he's a late sleeper) and packs my lunch to take to the office.
Cleans up the kitchen even though he cooked (we typically trade off-- the cook does not have to clean).
Picks up a lil treat for me when he does the grocery shopping.
Plans every detail of our vacation.

Sex stuff, obviously, but I feel like that's a pretty low bar in a LTR.

[Anonymous]

Takes care of problems because I usually have to do it 9999.99999% of the time and I'm totally over it. YOU handle it now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Takes care of problems because I usually have to do it 9999.99999% of the time and I'm totally over it. YOU handle it now.

Toxic. Dump him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughtful little acts of service.
Gets up before me (even though he doesn't have to since his work is on his own schedule and he's a late sleeper) and packs my lunch to take to the office.
Cleans up the kitchen even though he cooked (we typically trade off-- the cook does not have to clean).
Picks up a lil treat for me when he does the grocery shopping.
Plans every detail of our vacation.

Sex stuff, obviously, but I feel like that's a pretty low bar in a LTR.

Smh. Ask him to man up. Otherwise I don’t see this relationship lasting with this beta

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughtful little acts of service.
Gets up before me (even though he doesn't have to since his work is on his own schedule and he's a late sleeper) and packs my lunch to take to the office.
Cleans up the kitchen even though he cooked (we typically trade off-- the cook does not have to clean).
Picks up a lil treat for me when he does the grocery shopping.
Plans every detail of our vacation.

Sex stuff, obviously, but I feel like that's a pretty low bar in a LTR.

Smh. Ask him to man up. Otherwise I don’t see this relationship lasting with this beta

The way you people tell on yourselves is... wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Licks the back door…

Ok I thought this was a typo for "locks the back door," bc my ex consistently left doors unlocked (even left the keys IN the lock a few times!) and it was one of the many straws on that poor doomed camel's back.

I understand now.

[Anonymous]

Lets me stay up late when she's out with her boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

When he makes millions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lets me stay up late when she's out with her boyfriend.

My husband is the same, although he usually just goes to bed early.

[Anonymous]

I like it when my husband puts his dishes in the dishwasher right away. Not later, because he never does it later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughtful little acts of service.
Gets up before me (even though he doesn't have to since his work is on his own schedule and he's a late sleeper) and packs my lunch to take to the office.
Cleans up the kitchen even though he cooked (we typically trade off-- the cook does not have to clean).
Picks up a lil treat for me when he does the grocery shopping.
Plans every detail of our vacation.

Sex stuff, obviously, but I feel like that's a pretty low bar in a LTR.

Smh. Ask him to man up. Otherwise I don’t see this relationship lasting with this beta

The way you people tell on yourselves is... wow.

+1
It really is. Anyone that talks about "beta" men is an obvious incel.

[Anonymous]

Smh. Ask him to man up. Otherwise I don’t see this relationship lasting with this beta

Signed,

By the guy who must pay to touch a woman.

[Anonymous]

Will STFU for one minute a day.

[Anonymous]

Does the little chores I want. I wanted a mirror hung on a molly + stud, new light switch replaced, grid of 4 picture frames hung in a kid's room, and he did them all. I know he hates pesky chores like that.