Do men find women who can play a musical instrument well attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No we don’t care about that or any of your other supposed “accomplishments”.

Wow...you don't think women have accomplished anything.

You are a terrible person.

OP asked what we find sexually attractive. You got an honest answer. Too bad you don’t like it.

How would you feel if some guy scolded you for not being attracted to some hobby he has that you don’t find attractive (video games, whatever)? I bet you’d say “so sorry, I’m a terrible person, I promise to be attracted to that from now on.” Right?

No, you are a terrible persin because you don't consider it an accomplishment. You don't have to find it 'attractive' but to dismiss the talent and skill is what makes you awful.

If someone is good at something you can acknowlege the time it took to learn and master a skill

But I don't think you will understand

[Anonymous]

I know a woman who isn't especially attractive but plays a really weird nerdy instrument. She does meet guys that way.

[Anonymous]

DH here: speaking for myself, yes. This doesn’t, for me, fall into the “accomplishments” bucket that men don’t care about. There’s often an understated sensuality to it that can be like catnip, it does to some extent depend on the instrument though. Cello and harp are the sexiest musical instruments in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

DH above needs to work on reducing double negatives in his writing. That was confusing.

[Anonymous]

Guys who like music think it's cool that I can sing and play the piano. Guys who aren't into music don't care.

I have a lot of musician friends and the female musicians are all partnered up. All of them. So clearly it's considered a good thing.

[Anonymous]

Bassoon

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why on earth would you want to focus on attracting a man if you knew how to play an instrument and make music? Men are boring, and the sort of "man" who needs to be lured in/attracted is basic af.

Music is a far better lover than most men.

Flute, piccolo, or clarinet?
I can't imagine a violin working at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why on earth would you want to focus on attracting a man if you knew how to play an instrument and make music? Men are boring, and the sort of "man" who needs to be lured in/attracted is basic af.

Music is a far better lover than most men.

Flute, piccolo, or clarinet?
I can't imagine a violin working at all.

Gotta love the DCUM twisted humor

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn’t impress me. But, I am not easily impressed.

Why not?

Why am not impressed by much? I think people like to make things they do seem a lot more important they really are. Not saying your can't enjoy things or people shouldn't enjoy hobbies, just don't understand to a. let the world know b. assume/think anyone really cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn’t impress me. But, I am not easily impressed.

Why not?

Why am not impressed by much? I think people like to make things they do seem a lot more important they really are. Not saying your can't enjoy things or people shouldn't enjoy hobbies, just don't understand to a. let the world know b. assume/think anyone really cares.

Do you have any loving relationships? Friends?

[Anonymous]

My husband is a very good pianist with nice voice. He can play all kinds of music but when he does pop or rock and sings its like moths to a flame. If there is a piano at a party, hotel, bar, or cruise and he's bored he will sit down and start playing softly. As a crowd gathers he steps i up. He's fairly shy and this is his way being outgoing. It's always women who gather around the piano. I usually end up there too!

[Anonymous]

We don’t care.

[Anonymous]

I play cello and the skill was more valued overseas than in the US. I think classical music is just a bigger deal in Europe and parts of Asia. I ended up marrying a man from Europe. He also liked that I grew up mostly outside the US due and learned two other languages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I play cello and the skill was more valued overseas than in the US. I think classical music is just a bigger deal in Europe and parts of Asia. I ended up marrying a man from Europe. He also liked that I grew up mostly outside the US due and learned two other languages.

Americans are so uncultured, so that makes sense. I love that for you!

[Anonymous]

Skin flute = yes. Anything else, meh.