How old will you be when you retire? How many more years do you think you might live? It could be 30 or more. Here's the thing. When the dollar is devalued (it has been devalued 10% since Trump took office) and your bank is paying very little interest, your 2M might not look like such a great amount (especially if you give some of the money to your children for their move up home as well). Your money will be worth less as time goes on. But if you keep your home and enjoy it, you won't have to worry about rent increases and you will likely have a nicer place than the "rental". Plus your children can inherit a real home and we all need shelter. It's real estate (you know, something real). So it can be important to have that as part of your wealth. Your rent could well be more than the taxes, insurance and maintenance costs on your house and you don't know if your $2M in the bank will keep up with your costs anyway. Personally I plan to keep up my house because it's a very comfortable place (garage and parking steps from my door, beautiful yard to maintain privacy from neighbors) and I feel like quality of life is worth a lot as you age. Then again, my house is not worth $2M. It's probably half that, but it's a nice place and the right size. |
Sorry, I meant to say we have 3 kids. Helping 5 kids with buying a house is a lot! |
| I hope not. I finally got into the housing ladder and I’d like to climb it. |
Honestly, after working my ass off to pay off my mortgage I hate the idea that the tax man will still be harassing me. I will also not want the cost of maintaining my home - yard, AC, plumbing and electrical stuff that I do currently. I want to be free and I think renting is the better option in that regard. |
| My assesment taxes are going too high in the next cycle. I am considering to sell in near future and move to a cheaper place. I don't need this much space. |
Well, you will be paying for taxes and utilities through your rent and you will have to depend on a landlord to do the maintenance (which may or may not be done in a quality fashion). Have you ever rented? We rented for years and love owning. You are never free of taxes no matter where you live. If you move out to low tax land, you might be unhappy with the quality of your services, but maybe not. |
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^ Instead of having the tax man "harass" you, you will be forced to harass the landlord in order to get things done. Ask me how I know. |
That said, renters have peace of mind that they do not have to deal with maintenance. If you don't own the property, you start to not care that much about that home maintenance. As a renter, I routinely let things linger. |
| It is pretty affordable in the exurbs. |
That's not me. I like to live in a nice place. I also don't like to be at the mercy of someone else for things. |
This. I'm sorry that your priorities and expenses now are not the same as mine were when I was your age, but your salary is also significantly higher than mine was when I was your age and the cost of everything has gone up for me, too. Do what the rest of us did and start small and crappy, then work your way up. |
This is great advice. Find the crappiest place you can in a preferred location. That's what we did. Buy the house with the unfinished basement, bathrooms that function but are ugly (we lived with that for a long time while we saved money to fix them and did a lot ourselves). If the house has a bigger yard even better (and most older homes had bigger yards). This way you have privacy and may actually be able to add on in the future. We bought a solid, but outdated house years ago. We have touched every room and finished the basement (added a full bath there). The yard is beautiful. Don't watch HGTV! And be proud of what you are doing. You have the opportunity to make something the way YOU want it (not with the cheap stuff the flippers put in). |
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^ Plus you will be much better off financially than buying a house that is a couple hundred thousand more and watching it decline in value as this area goes into a recession (which is very likely right now). With the crappy cheaper house you will not see the hundred thousand dollar decline in value. It could decline, but not by nearly as much. If you fix it up it is likely to sell faster than the more expensive house just because it will be more affordable for people. |
She should consider getting a roommate. It was the only way I was able to live in DC in my 20s. |
Aaaaand this. Boomers who just do not get it. The small and crappy home that you bought back then is now a $1M home. Salaries have gone up but so have expenses - and housing has gone up significantly more. Of course, the answer is go even smaller and go even crappier. And take a 2+ hour commute on top of that. |