Probably the daughter because she married well to keep up with that lifestyle. |
I'm GenX, parents are Silent Generation. One grandmother died when I was in college (parents in their 50s) and left nothing, my parents had been paying for her nursing home. The other grandmother lived into her mid-90s, and the total inheritance of some farmland was split between the four siblings. My parents gave me and my two siblings $10k each to put in our kids' college funds. Nice but hardly life changing money.
Inheritance is not at all the norm and never has been. Consider yourself fortunate if you don't need to help support your aging parents. |
So? I can't afford to knock down a big house and build a small one. The value of extra sqft is much less as the house gets bigger. Those 500 feet are basically worthless but still cost double what the 1900 feet cost in 1990. |
+1 Lots of young people want nice homes with the latest finishes as their first place and also expensive entertainment, clothes, etc. You either have the money to do it all or you don't. If you don't, then you need to prioritize and sacrifice other things to fund your priorities. I see lots of people on this forum who sacrificed buying a home to fund other priorities, but they don't realize it. |
what do you do? |
Conversely, I see lots of boomers who can't do basic math on median income vs median home prices. |
Of course because every problem for every generation is all the fault of Boomers. My gosh, give it a rest and I’m not even close to being a Boomer. But the Boomer bashing has become absurd and exhausting. |
It’s simple math. The median home price has increased at a rate significantly greater than the median income. That statement is a fact with no blame placed. |
It probably increased even more than that in the house poor yuppie areas that you want to live. |