They borrow money. That’s how. |
We should let the invaders roll onto your white shores. Small, ethnocentric countries are passé. |
My Scandinavian family has an incredibly high quality of life day to day, but they can't afford to take vacations like we do, and while baseline health care is leaps and bounds better than ours, any complex medical needs requires more time and bureaucracy to sort out, and it's less likely to be customized. |
Well, I can tell you that my German friends take 6 weeks vacation all over the world.
And college including medical school, law etc are free, plus you get a stipend. That’s over 500k right there |
I echo this. I have a friend in Denmark. She has a very simple but lovely apartment for her family of 4. They do not own a car, they bike or use public transportation (or rent a car for a trip out of town if they must). Healthcare is covered, education and extracurriculars are covered pretty much from preschool onward, and there are no major limitations on sick days. They live a great quality of life. I haven't found Copenhagen to be outrageous at all when traveling with kids. I am staying at my friends extra summer house during my next trip but in the past we have always stayed at absolutely lovely family hostel that is much higher quality than most American hotels with wayyy better amenities and included breakfast. Even for a more "luxury visit" to say Billund- Legoland stuff, is not expensive compared to US amusement park prices and is probably better quality. If there was a job opportunity in Denmark, I would take it in a heartbeat! |
They can do all that because they don’t have social baggages we have. |
Do you think Europeans don't travel or do activities or cook? They do! But in lots of places they pay less for childcare, healthcare, and yes have smaller homes and transit options which are healthy and more affordable. |
They work similar hours and can’t outsource Have a crazy high amount of mortgage debt that requires both parents to work Fewer clothes and household goods More dependent on public transport and only one car that’s older and less safe Limited choice for higher education as it’s free but access is decided by the government and is limited More difficult daily life where it’s more challenging to hire help, stores are often closed and life is more inefficient (going to the grocery store every day for example instead of having a larger home and fridge - that’s a PIA) Can’t hire babysitters as it’s not common due to less disposable income Being expected to stay home for *years* after having a child because you’re a woman and expected to be excited about the minimum wage the government pays you become a second class citizen at work. But when your time is up expected to return to work with a vengeance to pay that high mortgage. Mortgage? Isn't it the same in the USA when you want to buy a home in a good area? Public transport: huge advantage if you don't need to take the car for every single errand in daily life. Stores are closed on sundays, so there is enough time to go to the grocery store. The choice of education is just limited by the intellecutal skills of the students. Duckheads like POTUS won't get access to universities. It's common to hire babysitters. Parents are not expected to stay home. Part time working is more common. |
Famously there are no rich people in Europe. |
Of course they travel but they aren’t regularly taking vacations with long flights (at least not most of them and not 2-3 per year). They can get to places by train and by short cheap flights way easier than Americans can. And of course they cook, my point was they don’t have 200k “chefs kitchens” with 15k Wolf ranges and 2 dishwashers and two paneled fridges and marble countertops. American kitchens are ridiculous status symbols. |
Europe is not a monolith. |
Exactly. This is the whole point of the thread. They cook a lot more than Americans do, on average (I'm guessing) and they manage to do so with much smaller kitchens. Ikea is a Swedish company and all about small space efficiency -- because that's ultimately the Scandinavian market. |
Well look at the majority of americans, who do not have lavish kitchens, scrapping by. And they still don't seem to have half a great a life of all Danish, from working-class to royalty |
It strikes me that if somebody from DCUM goes to an African country where people look, dress, interact and live very differently then they recognise that they have a different culture and values and don't necessarily question their choices.
But if the same person goes to a European country and sees people who pretty much look like them, they make all sorts of assumptions and judgements about them as though they also don't have a different culture and values. Why are people questioning the choices, culture and values of Danes? They are not remotely like Americans. |
Well, you have to consider lifestyle and culture which PP have mentioned. You cannot compare their lives to ours. We live in completely different worlds and cultures.
The kind of lifestyle we "need" and enjoy and want here in the US is really different from almost the rest of the world. You can be very happy on little if that's all you've ever known. But also, quality is important. Remember, quality is $$ here but quality is not as $$ in other parts of the world because they just don't have 100 options for one thing. Culturally, we consume, other people simply live ![]() I always say - it's absolutely not just taxes. You think it's taxes that differentiate us from Europe but it's not. We pay "less" but get less in return. You have to look at apples to apples and if you do that, they actually get better ROI than we do on taxes. But more than that, it's lifestyle and culture for sure. |