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I've been pulled over a handful of times in the 20+ years I've been driving. I've only gotten a ticket once, and he knocked it down to the lowest possible offense, I think because I was genuinely remorseful (totally didn't see the "no turn on red" sign), polite and had a completely clean driving record. I figure if I'm getting pulled over, I've done something wrong and the cop's doing his job. It's worked pretty well for me, though my guy friends swear it's because I'm a hot chick. (I'm not hot.) I think a lot of it is about the officer's mood that day, how you treat him/her, and what you have on your record; they have discretion on ticketing.
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| I once saw a little sporty coupe with a sticker on the small window right behind the driver's side that said "Bad cop! No doughnut!" It was right where a cop would stand when speaking to someone s/he pulled over. That's ballsy (or just plain stupid). If batman belt jokes don't go over too well, I can imagine the result of this sticker... |
so you've been pulled over many times? |
So you are clearly in this category. Sorry, your constitutional right of free speech allows you to be an asshole. It does not immunize you from the consequences of being an asshole. But go ahead and try it. |
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Mmmm, it does suggest to me that law enforcement has no right to impose consequences for mere assholery.
I am not advocating rude behavior on the citizens' part, but flattery should not be required of citizens and bullying from police officers should not be tolerated. This is what's wrong. Policemen provide a specific public service and have no legitimate business over-reaching their limited social role. We shouldn't have to cower before them, apologize to them personally, or flatter them lest they get us any way they can. When this is happening, there's too much authority invested in minimally educated people who don't respect the gravity of the responsibility we've given them for the sake of our protection. |
Yep, asshole. Too much authority? Criminals need to fear police as much as possible. If you were ever in a situation where you needed a police officer to protect you from one you wouldn't be saying something so ridiculous. |
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NP here. How about this as a statement of principles we can all agree on:
(1) Most police officers deserve loads of respect, and probably more respect than most other people, because they do an incredibly difficult and dangerous job, because they're underpaid, and because they put up with a lot of unwarranted abuse. (2) Police officers have no right to abuse their authority, bully citizens, or even expect citizens to flatter them. Those police officers who do abuse their authority should be prosecuted aggressively and forfeit the right to act as police officers. They no longer deserve any respect. Few things command my respect more than a good police officer, and few things piss me off more than an officer who abuses his authority. |
There is a vast world between rudeness and prostrating yourself with insincere flattery. It's called common courtesy. You can be courteous without cowering. You can be courteous without apologizing or resorting to flattery. Calling an officer by his own title is common courtesy, like you call a doctor "Doctor". It's no big deal. If it seems like a big deal to use someone's proper title, you have an issue with manners, not the police. |
Their education may not equal yours. But your job does not put you at risk of being shot and killed in order to protect the citizenry. I think you do not respect the gravity of that commitment. |