| That takehome doesn't sound correct. Do you have a lot of payroll deductions besides retirement? |
| Definitely get roommates, OP. How old are you? |
| Do you need a car? You live in a city with some of the best public transport in the world. Even with spending $300 a month on ubers, you would come out ahead. |
I had an income of $15k in a good year and few investment accounts. The manager also went on and on how I needed 3x the rent, so $90k+ something. After seeing the balance of one of the investment accounts, they told me to come get the apartment. The security deposit was also waived. This wasn't even a private landlord who can decide whatever. My private landlord never checked references, credit, on time payments. They got the place ready for me in one day. One can easily lose a job. It is much harder to lose bunch on money invested. This is why I told op to rent the cheapest place, build up their investments, and nobody cares about his income going forward. 30 years ago I got an apartment based on my race. I guess they needed more people looking like me. I was told I have good credit. I had just moved to US. I had no credit and had no idea what that was. |
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I have mint mobile for my cell phone, OP, and I think I pay $15 per month. You need a phone that’s already paid off and unlocked.
I’ve been through a divorce and I agree with the others about finding a less expensive place to live and inexpensive car. You can rent from an individual owner for less than what the corporate owners charge — contact a realtor to start a search. And obviously living a bit further out will save money. You’ll want to have room in your budget for spending money to treat yourself to meals out or a little trip with friends, so cut costs where you can. Best wishes in this new chapter. |
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With no kids there is no reason for you to have a new car AND live in Vienna in your own place:
You should choose, as most do: 1. Spend more on rent and go car free (you'll save even with ubers) or get a beater OR 2. Get the nicer car but live farther out from vienna and commute 3. Get the nicer car and live in Vienna but give up the idea of living in your own place and rent a basement unit or share |
Why do you need a nice car AND to live nearby AND to live in a 1 br? |
Why? Are you single? My 5MB cell phone account is $30 per month. And I could cut that to $15 if I wanted to. |
| A Mint plan is $15/month. |
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I would cut your retirement savings to $10K per year rather than the $25K you're currently doing.
I think your withholding might be wrong or your estimates of your net are wrong. If you reduce to $10K retirement you're looking at $102K gross - say $6000 for insurance = $94K pretax then say 25% for taxes puts you at about $70K total net or almost $6K per month. |
I make a similar amount as OP. $2800 a month would eat up more than 1 paycheck. I wouldnt get an apartment thats more than $1800. |
Agree. You have NO wiggle room here—no saving, no holidays, no clothing, no nothing. You could do it for six months but then you either need a housemate or an additional job. Don’t forget that the retirement saving won’t come back to you 1:1 unless it’s Roth. Taxes will be deducted. I’m sorry—this sucks. |
Did you even read the title post? This person is divorcing. What kind of question is, “are you single?” |
| About 1/3 of your income can go to housing. Buy a used car and pay it off in full. |
This is just plain wrong. I make $112K and spend $2,700 monthly on rent and bills with around $1,000 per pay period left over. With OP's budget that would be $460 wiggle room every pay period, with two "bonus" pay periods per year which is tight but easily manageable. Especially considering OP could easily cut $150 from his cell phone bill and $200+ from his grocery bill. |