Why are women’s very first questions, how tall are you and how much money do you make?

[Anonymous]

Usually women who ask about height or other physical characteristics cannot be saved by the pound of paint on their face. Delusion is not a crime but a coping mechanism.

[Anonymous]

I am 6'3. When I was in college a woman told me a really wild reason why she prefers shorter and average looking men. She said short and average looking men are more likely to be faithful, less women are likely to be interested in them and she will always be the "hotter" one when they are together. She said with short and average looking men, she will never have to worry about them because prettier women aren't going to go for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 6'3. When I was in college a woman told me a really wild reason why she prefers shorter and average looking men. She said short and average looking men are more likely to be faithful, less women are likely to be interested in them and she will always be the "hotter" one when they are together. She said with short and average looking men, she will never have to worry about them because prettier women aren't going to go for them.

Pretty much based on reality so not a wild reason.

[Anonymous]

I met a guy on the internet. Not a dating site. More like a mutual interest site. I chatted with him for years. Never ever asked him how tall he was or how much money he made. I did find out eventually that he was 5' 11" and did not have a high income. Didn't care about either one. Fell in love with him anyway.

[Anonymous]

I’m so curious about what you want women to ask about, OP.
If it’s not your looks, money, or occupation, what makes you such a great match?
Let me guess. You’re a “nice guy?”

https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am more than just my earning potential and the accident of my biological height. And if I “work out.”

Why is this all women care about?

People like what they like.

Would you date a fat ugly woman who had amazing personality and intelligence?

Of course you wouldn’t.

[Anonymous]

My rules in life and dating:

If it takes you a paragraph to explain what your job is, then you don’t have a real job. It might take a while to explain your day to day, but job descriptions that start with, “Well, basically I …” are BS.

If it takes you a paragraph to explain why I should date you, then you don’t have much to offer. You have to get to know each other, and interest doesn’t guarantee compatibility, but descriptions of what makes you a great catch that start with, “Oh, I’m really into…” are BS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m so curious about what you want women to ask about, OP.
If it’s not your looks, money, or occupation, what makes you such a great match?
Let me guess. You’re a “nice guy?”

https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person

‘ "She would love me if she only knew what an interesting person I am!" Really? How do all of your interesting thoughts and ideas manifest themselves in the world? What do they cause you to do? If your dream girl had a hidden camera that followed you around for a month, would they be impressed with what they saw? Remember, they can't read your mind -- they can only observe. Would they want to be a part of that life?’

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Will my babies be tall, strong and healthy and can you provide for us.

Babies generally aren't very tall. Most of the time they can't even stand on their own two feet.

[Anonymous]

Those aren't even in my top 30 of questions to ask.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met a guy on the internet. Not a dating site. More like a mutual interest site. I chatted with him for years. Never ever asked him how tall he was or how much money he made. I did find out eventually that he was 5' 11" and did not have a high income. Didn't care about either one. Fell in love with him anyway.

That's not short.

[Anonymous]

Last man I dated was 5'4" and the current one is 5' 3". One can barely pay his bills month to month, the other is coming out of a bankruptcy.
I'm done having kids and not into getting married. I have my own money so I don't really care how much they make as long as they don't ask me for money.
I think I have a thing for shorter man. My own country is full of tall people. If I wanted tall, I could have stayed there.
I cannot stand a man towering over me. Shorter men are better in bed and nobody wants the two above, because of money issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met a guy on the internet. Not a dating site. More like a mutual interest site. I chatted with him for years. Never ever asked him how tall he was or how much money he made. I did find out eventually that he was 5' 11" and did not have a high income. Didn't care about either one. Fell in love with him anyway.

Is 5'11 tall? I feel like the bar get pushed higher and higher lol. Maybe 6:3 is the new 5'11? There are far more women with nice boobs and butt than men over 6'0 and it's not even close

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 6'3. When I was in college a woman told me a really wild reason why she prefers shorter and average looking men. She said short and average looking men are more likely to be faithful, less women are likely to be interested in them and she will always be the "hotter" one when they are together. She said with short and average looking men, she will never have to worry about them because prettier women aren't going to go for them.

Women worry more about their completion than men do. But I think men should as well because there are women out there endlessly looking for the next better guy. So guys pick your girl wisely. And at all cost avoid any woman that think she is "hot" major red flag. Go for the humble woman even if she is a bit on the heavier side. She will appreciate you. When a woman thinks she can do better than you, you are on borrowed time brother

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 6'3. When I was in college a woman told me a really wild reason why she prefers shorter and average looking men. She said short and average looking men are more likely to be faithful, less women are likely to be interested in them and she will always be the "hotter" one when they are together. She said with short and average looking men, she will never have to worry about them because prettier women aren't going to go for them.

I kinda disagree with this idea that short or average men are insecure and won’t cheat. Maybe initially but then once they are successful in career and have money they gain confidence (assuming this happens) and once they have this confidence they are just as likely to cheat as a “hot” guy. Because when it comes right down to it - men are measured by power and success and not appearance.