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I have never heard anyone (even older people) pronounce the tts in button or kitten unless they were British.
If you don't think you are swallowing the Ts you have not listened to yourself. At 0:50 the character is Sutton. Everyone pronounces this way. Even california. |
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Warter instead of water
Git instead of get Bafroom instead of bathroom |
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Warsh instead of wash; Warshington instead of Washington
MonDEE, TuesDEE, WendesDEE, ThursDEE, FridEE… “Ristrint” instead of “restaurant” “Arange” instead of “orange” My MIL says “sahayl-SAH” instead of salsa. I’ll never know how she fits so many extra syllables into that word. |
You would need to order wudder in PA. |
Mine does this too (also 16) and I hate it. She gets mad when I point it out though. It sounds uneducated to me. |
Well there’s multiple posts on here of people saying it’s a typical way of talking in the NE and in the West, so maybe you could stop harping on your kid for something she probably doesn’t have much control over? That’s the kind of thing your kid is going to remember for a long time and it will negatively color her feelings for you. |
You’re teaching your daughter not to use her voice. Brava, Mom. Brava. If you don’t get that teenagers experiment with their appearance and presentation to the world, you’re either or moron or judgmental to the point of stifling your child. Either way, continue on like this and she’ll want nothing to do with you. I enjoy talking to my teen and getting to know her. I’m her cheerleader, not her bully. Unless she was doing something harmful, immoral or dangerous, I would let her be. |
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On words like button, there are three ways to do it:
Not pronouncing any “t”: “buh-in”. I’m from NY, and this always made me crazy, even though it was very common. Pronouncing a single “t” - “but-in”. This to me is what sounds ‘normal’ Enunciating both “t”s. “But-tin”. Also weird to me, but some do it. On “adult” - to me, that’s in transition, and honestly neither one sticks out to me. I suspect I even shift back and forth. I REALLY hate when people pronounce the “t” in often. I yelled at my kid about that one. And now the “l” in salmon, that’s just starting. Language changes, but that doesn’t mean I have to like it. |
| Most of these are just regional differences that have always existed. Did you grow up in a different part of the country? |
Have you heard about laughter and daughter and slaughter? Don't get too smug that same spelling means same pronunciation. (fun fact- they actually were pronounced the same before the Great Vowel Shift) |
One of my kids does this too (she’s 20) but I have never said anything about it. I just find it odd. I have 3 kids who were all raised in the same place exactly the same and she’s the only one who does this. I have no clue how she developed this. |
British has glottal T also. |
| So many people discovering linguistics on this thread and learning that not everyone in the world has to be exactly the same. Such fun! |
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That’s not age. That’s regional. |