It pains me to say this, but I used to love shopping or even browsing and looking at merchandise and displays. Maybe I’d buy something, maybe not.
Those days are long gone. I get everything I want through Amazon Prime. Shopping is too stressful and a robotic transactional experience. Last straw; went to TJ Maxx to replace a hairdryer - nothing fancy-about $30. Found what I wanted but it was locked in a case. Rang bell to have it unlocked. Waited. Employee unlocked and told me the hairdryer will be waiting at checkout that I was not allowed to place this high value item in my cart. All for a no name hairdryer. |
OP here- thanks for the replies. I assure you I was calm. A shopper next to me even remarked that I was calmer than she would be under the situation.
I felt for the employee because she was unable to articulate the policy. She kept saying that she didn’t want to get in trouble. So, maybe one of her co-workers did get in trouble, though again in this circumstance I should have been able to purchase my spray paint. I wish I had been able to wait for the manager bc I fear that this situation will happen again and the customer won’t be as patient as I was. I was able to get tape- so I did in fact “get a grip”. |
Of course an adult with an ID should be able to purchase spray paint, even if they have a child with them. |
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These stories are INSANE. The fact the employees are flustered show how they themselves think the policies are unreasonable. Blame the employers. |
Do you think the Michaels employee was cognitively impaired and therefore unable to make what should have been an easy executive deicsion? In the past I've such some employees at the Rockville Michaels, although usually not at the registers. I'm glad they're hired, and I would have stayed very calm as well. No point in harassing them. |
I’d write about this on Twitter and see what the world has to say. |
This. The cashier is over the top. I am served alcohol when I'm with my kids. I can buy cold medicine when I'm with my kids. What if my kid was a baby? Can I buy it then? |
That cashier is out of her mind. Op was the one buying the paint not the son. She should have just checked op's id. |
Aso Michael's has the most awful system. If you do an online or buy online pickup in store purchase and want to do a return, be prepared to go through the checkout line to the one old cashier who has to key in the item code and price (scanning will not work) for every single item. You will hold up the line, people behind you will start shifting their feet. Took me 30 minutes to return some individual craft paints that I did not need.
The store does not have a dedicated customer service counter either |
+1,000 to the above. It's simply mean and self-centered to blame the individual employees, who simply want to keep their jobs FFS!, for doing things they are told they MUST do for every transaction. Try to be civilized, all of you who proclaim such fury at the cashiers. Those cashiers hate it all as much as you do -- more, in fact, because for you it's just one transaction, but for them it's potentially many transactions each shift where they have to be the "bad guy" asking for IDs or denying sales, all based on polices entirely out of their individual control. Making the cashier's life hell -- yeah, even for a few minutes -- gets you nothing, and makes that person's day a little sh**tier. If doing that to some random cashier makes you feel better, you need a serious attitude adjustment. |
That cashier, whom OP admits seemed nervous, likely was new to the job, had had very minimal trainiing, had been told that selling prain the "wrong way" would get her fired, and had zero authority to make any decisions on her own. Even if she messed up and could have sold the paint to OP, there is no reason to call an undertrained cashier "out of her mind" just because she might be afraid of losing her job, and her employer is terrible at training. Grow up and grow a little empathy too. |
paint, not "praiin" |
Training.
Poor training is the culprit here. |
A little common sense goes a long way too. If the employee is new, they should ask a coworker if the manager is on break. |
I would have calmly asked her if her manager could please come explain the policy, because it sounds like the details are not correct. |