Toxic gaslighting at its finest. This is why this site is so messed up. "It's legally a city, but not really a city." SMH. |
If you’ve ever lived in a real city then you would never describe Alexandria as a city. A town, maybe. But every time I hear someone talk about some thing that Alexandria needs to do or be because it’s a city, I assume that person is from the podunk sticks. |
You don't even know who I am, so not only do you gaslight but youre someone who makes assumptions too, got it. I grew up in the world's largest and most populous city. If you've visited Alexandria in the last 5 years, then you will see, it is a city. Not sure why people outside like to disprove Alexandrians so much. It's odd. |
Because I live here (have for actually 5 years, like you said!) and, no, it’s not. It’s a suburb like any close-in big city suburb. Doesn’t matter which big city you go to, they all have an Alexandria or multiple Alexandrias. But most of them don’t have weird apologists who try to use “city” or “urban” to excuse poor schools. Most of them actually have good schools. I always find this funny, too, because it’s clear most of these people have never set foot west of King or south of Duke. Their Alexandria is only half of the area, if that. |
If you live here, then a) why would you be so rude in your online comments to a neighbor and say they are from "podunk shticks" I'm so surprised that Alexandrians preach kindness and neighborhood and then come to an anon site and are rude. b) the west end development is the definition of urban. High rise dense apartment buildings housing a mix of new Afghani refugees and upper income young urban professionals. No one refers to Alexandria City as large, It is a small city - the same size as other Tier 3 cities such as Salt Lake City, and has the same challenges and civic discussions as cities do, not towns. When we refer to Alexandria as a city in reference to the schools, we do so in order to identify strategies that work for an urban city school system. If you take a city school system and try to fix it the way you would a small town school system, you would fail. |
Interesting that you accuse me of rudeness after claiming I was engaging in “toxic gaslighting” for merely pointing out that, while incorporated as a city, Alexandria is not a real city for all intents and purposes. Pretty sure the conversation was fine up until that point. You mention SLC but SLC is the 117th largest city in the US and still about a third larger than Alexandria. This is what we’re talking about. So long as Alexandrians insist that Alexandria is anything other than a suburb, they will excuse away all of the problems. If Alexandria is “different” than Arlington, Moco, etc., or any other large city close-in suburb with good schools, then there’s nothing to see here, because we’re “different.” But we’re not other than our tolerance for the indefensible. |
Where we disagree is your definition of what real is. That's what gaslighting is. It is a city, as you mentioned, legally, though a small one. However its problems and advantages are rooted in civic issues tied to cities not suburbs. Like Hoboken for example. I disagree that saying it's a city means we excuse the poor schools, in fact, saying it's a city helps approach the schools in a way that's effective in city school management. |
Umm, 1. King runs east-west. How does one step foot west of a road that runs.... west 2. Alexandria is a city. If you don't like that, take it up with the Federal Government. https://data.census.gov/profile/Alexandria_city,_Virginia?g=050XX00US51510 3. You are a sad, poor, troll. I will never understand the special insecurity our city triggers in wannabe Alexandrians. |
Also, George Mason moms are the second hottest school moms in the city. |
1. Because it kinks at Russell and runs northwest. Look at a map if you can figure out what one is. 2. You clearly missed the discussion between a city as a legal entity and a city as a concept but you do you. There are independent “cities” in Virginia with fewer than 10k people but for all intents and purposes people would not consider them cities in a discussion about city vs suburb vs exurb vs rural vs town vs whatever. This conversation started over whether Alexandria is an “urban” school district which can’t be assessed by looking at the jurisdiction’s legal status. 3. You are one of the several extremely triggered people here over the simple idea that Alexandria is merely a suburb of the actual city and that people should approach it that way. Not sure how that’s trolling other than that you are incapable of hearing anything you don’t want to hear and have a complex about living in the suburbs. Peace ✌🏼. |
1. Still factually incorrect. Your response was not an oppurtunity to correct a previous error. 2. I'll wait for you to supply a source for the opinion of 'people', until then, think with your mouth closed. 3. Deflection. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
George Mason is one of the better elementary schools in the city. It is tiny, half the size and others and has a good reputation. Don't let everyone scare you off. Something that would give me pause would be the swing space should your kids be there for that. They are planning on bussing the kids across town to go to school in a converted West end office building. |
1. Not factually incorrect, sorry you don’t know directions. 2. If you think a place with less than 10k people is a city, that’s hilarious. Take me to your farm sometime. 3. None of that is deflection. You don’t seem to know what “deflection” means. Like, at all. Sorry, OP. You moved here to Alexandria and now you get to deal with exceptionally dumb people like this PP, who are in a constant defensive crouch and ready to bare their claws about anything that they think even hints at a criticism. And it’s why ACPS will never improve. |
All I'm seeing is a 12 yo girl sticking her fingers in her ears and humming. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
And this juvenile response proves my point. Thank you and have a good evening. |