SPINOFF: At what age did you first have sex OR ...

Anonymous
22... seven years later I married him. my one and only (he's about a month younger than me.)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


OMG you were 12??!!!

I would be so sad, angry and disappointed if my 12 yo DD was having sex.


I'm not the person who posted that I was 12 (actually, I'm the one that was 20 ) I will say though, that not speaking for her, this is usually not the result of a well-parented self-adjusted child. I'm sure there are exceptions, but those that I knew who were having sex at 12 were mostly from homes where there wasn't a lot of support.



Hmmm... you think?

Duh.


I like how people find the opportunity to be a jerk for no apparent reason.
Anonymous
I was 19 he was 25, so 6 years. The other 4 partners I've had have been less than a year older or younger.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


Yuck. Are you ok?


Wow, that's not nice, even with the follow up. I know a lot of kids who experimented early. I probably would have, but I thought I was too fat (I wasn't). Its true most of the ones I knew were from bad homes, but one or two were just curious.
Anonymous
23 with a man my own age who is now my husband. No others.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


Yuck. Are you ok?


Wow, that's not nice, even with the follow up. I know a lot of kids who experimented early. I probably would have, but I thought I was too fat (I wasn't). Its true most of the ones I knew were from bad homes, but one or two were just curious.


But she didn't just have sex at age 12, she also later had sex with a man 34 years older when she was only 21. I'm close to 40 and I STILL don't want to have sex with a 55 year old man.
Anonymous
Just shy of 16 as was my boyfriend. Actually, not great at first, but we had a great sex life for the two years after that.

Biggest gap: I was 25 and he was early 40s and married. Not proud of myself to say the least.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


Yuck. Are you ok?


Wow, that's not nice, even with the follow up. I know a lot of kids who experimented early. I probably would have, but I thought I was too fat (I wasn't). Its true most of the ones I knew were from bad homes, but one or two were just curious.


Sorry, it is not normal or okay to have sex at 12. There's something going on more than just curiosity and it is sad.
Anonymous
For those who lost "it" with their DH or DW, is your sex life amazing? I've always wondered if the less experienced ones have the best sex lives, because they have no previous relationships to make any comparisons with.
Anonymous
10

gap - 5 years
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For those who lost "it" with their DH or DW, is your sex life amazing? I've always wondered if the less experienced ones have the best sex lives, because they have no previous relationships to make any comparisons with.


I didn't lose it to my husband, but I only had one partner beforehand. I don't think sex is any different because I wasn't experienced. The sex with the other guy was fine but I personally think it's better with my husband. I don't think it matters how many people you sleep with, just if you're compaitible with the one you're with.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


Yuck. Are you ok?


Wow, that's not nice, even with the follow up. I know a lot of kids who experimented early. I probably would have, but I thought I was too fat (I wasn't). Its true most of the ones I knew were from bad homes, but one or two were just curious.


Sorry, it is not normal or okay to have sex at 12. There's something going on more than just curiosity and it is sad.


I agree it's abnormal and the later relationship shows this. I agree one in a million will just be curious, but it's pretty rare.
Anonymous
i first had sex at 18. no regrets.

biggest age gap: i was 19, he was 27. no regrets there either (he had the biggest i've ever seen!)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


OMG you were 12??!!!

I would be so sad, angry and disappointed if my 12 yo DD was having sex.


I'm sure if my mother knew I was raped at 12 she would be sad too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 12.
Biggest age gap I was 21 he was 55


OMG you were 12??!!!

I would be so sad, angry and disappointed if my 12 yo DD was having sex.


I'm sure if my mother knew I was raped at 12 she would be sad too.


That's interesting, I was raped at 17 but I still don't think of myself as actually having sex until I was 24, on my wedding night. At 17, I was assaulted. At 24, I had sex for the first time.
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